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Thread: Being just a more fun and flirty person

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    Default Being just a more fun and flirty person

    Hey guys,

    Need some help. I feel like my inner game has really been improving but I think I caught myself in a trap. I've been telling myself frequently "You have to be fun" and stuff like that, not putting myself down, but then I feel like I'm not living up to what I said I have to do. I am a fun guy, but I suck at story telling as of now and I don't know fun ways to flirt. I used to be a very flirty guy, but for some reason it just went away.

    I want to be the most fun and flirty guy in the room who can give anyone (be it a girl on a date, or just hanging out with friends) the time of their lives. I need to be more spontaneous and fun, some examples are some of the example goofbally texts Tmal reccomends, but I don't think I can pull that off yet.

    Advice?

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    Default Re: Being just a more fun and flirty person

    You want to know why you suck at story telling and being a fun flirty guy ? Because you think you actually suck at story telling and being a fun flirty guy. Its negative thinking without you noticing and if you keep thinking such ways you might not go far..

    Basicly you should just do what ever is fun for you, if its fun you'll suck people into your fun. Look at it this way, if a song is playing and a person starts clapping, other people will start clapping, it'll fit the music and it'll be fun TO THEM and the PEOPLE AROUND. If you're having your own fun flirting, you'll be a fun flirter, simply. (Just be sure not to cross certain lines on things, there is a limit to what you flirt on) Being flirty is being playful my man.

    And as far as story telling, basicly good stories are interesting stories, telling a story about how your cat went down the stairs isn't interesting. What I do and find very helpful to keep me in a conversation is when someone talks or says something, I take a piece of what they've said and add a story,fact or what ever afterwards.

    Example:

    Friend: I'm paying 300$ for my phone plan, I might just leave them after I've payed..

    Me: Apparently, there's a new law that you don't pay a leaving fee you only pay the rest of the phone you've bought from them.

    See how I took a small piece of his story and made my own. You can also share stuff. He says something you can pop in the conversation and go: Once I.., Yeah, I remember one time... Simple

    Interesting stories you can share with girls are stuff you used to do as a kid because face it. The times you were young are the best years, I could imagine anyone that is 18-21 in 10 years go back and say they loved being 18-21. Share small stuff you think its funny and talk about it.

    Don't hold yourself back to talk, even if you get called out. good luck

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    Default Re: Being just a more fun and flirty person

    i have to agree with "ohsnap", and imo being funny is all about being fearless and not being afraid to say whats on your mind.

    in addition i like to use outside sorces like movie quotes or mentioning funny youtube videos or even popular news stories or local stereotypes.

    i would also recomend that you watch alot of funny tv shows/movies/comedy, its an easey way to get tons of good jokes and you'll find yourself using them without even thinking about it.

    most people aren't naturally the "funny, joking, type" instead they learn to be humorus by watching acters flawlessly deliver jokes on tv and other media.

    another part of being humorus can come from having funny, spontainious friends to hang out with. you will find yourself imitating their behavior without even reallizing it

    btw comedians practice their jokes hundreds of times before they get them to be "just right" so that their audiences will be laughing their @ss off, it takes them months of practice before they master each joke for use at one of their shows. so don't give up just because one person didn't find one of your jokes to be funny, often times it just needs to be "re-worded" to applie to the person your telling it to.

    good luck on your journey, i'm sure you'll have people laughing in no time.

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    Default Re: Being just a more fun and flirty person

    I've noticed an improvement actually rather quickly in the last 2 days because of the advice given here. I want to know something though, how do keep progressing your social/flirting/alpha skills? I understand the basis of everything, but how do I start progressing that into my personality? I've got confidence for the most part, but I do stick in my head a lot, not thinking about my appearance or what people think of me, rather what I think my behavior should be like. I think I'm trying to hard in my brain to be perfect, but does anybody have any tips for getting past that?

    Thanks guys.


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