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Thread: Dating HB "Ali Larter" I think I've lost her

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    Default Dating HB "Ali Larter" I think I've lost her

    Hi Guys, been scoping the forums for a while and gaining lots of great info, decided to join as I need some help and really don't want to lose this one.

    Some brief background info:
    30 years old, Ali Larter look a like. She previously was in a 10 year relationship. Got married and her Ex left her 5 weeks after getting married. She been single for about 1 year and just started back in the dating scene. Met her on POF. Very down to earth girl. Been dating/communicating for about 1 month. All her friends are in relationships and doesnt seem to have an active social life

    Communications:
    I think I've played it well, not coming across as needy, built attraction, banter and negs. Usually I am the one initiating the texts 80% but she always responding between 2-30min. The other 20% she has initiated if I haven't contacted her for a day. Has agreed to most meets and if couldn't make it would offer alternate days

    In between meets been sending the odd texts to continue building attraction, nothing needy just a few text. I'm really keen on her and been expecting that our meets would increase to at least 2-3 x week, they only still been 1x week

    Milestone meets:
    Day 3 was at her place for dvd, baileys and cuddles. Things got very hot and steamy, she stated she wasn't going to have sex (to early). Ended up fingering her and she played with my c**k. She gets very very hot and wet. Gave her nickname of juicy fruit - she loved that.

    Day 4 She met me me in the city on her day off work during work lunch break to help me buy present for my sister. She sent me message after stating she was very juicy when she left me.

    Day 5 Takeout after work back at hers, Lots of making out hot n steamy but had her period.

    Day 6 Took her out to dinner, F-closed, stayed the night as she wanted me too. Few logistics issues like her bleeding and me having some performance anxiety because of that and condom. Ended up giving her an orgasm by fingering which she stated was the longest one she has had.

    Couple days later after some texts I suggested meeting on weekend to go to a Easter Carnival we have here (as she had indicated some time ago her interest in this)
    She agreed and suggested Sunday

    This is where her text replied started going from 2-30min to 5 hours+. Where I would have expected an increase in contact as she now slept with me.
    So I started getting all in my head analyzing. But there was one night I got a random txt which was a good sign i guess

    Her: I just stacked it as I was trying to sprint, I'm all grazed, I've never seen my PT laugh so much
    Me: Forget how to run did you? Are you alright lol
    Her: I stepped in a little ditch. I'm alright, just really embarrassed. I felt like such a bimbo
    Me: Haha that's awesome I wish I was there
    Her: You are so mean!!
    Me: When do you want to see me you can smack me then
    Her: I'll be free to smack you on Sunday
    So here I was indirectly trying to organise a meetup before the sunday easter carnival which we had already agreed but she is obviously happy to wait till the weekend?!

    Now here is where it dies
    I have a daughter which I have every 2nd weekend and it was the same weekend as this carnival. She knows about her and is completely cool with it.

    Thursday
    Me:As I've got my daughter and given the show is near my me. I can pick you up sat night and will cook dinner mine then we walk to the show sunday

    She didnt reply till the next day!?!
    Her: I've actually got a birthday party on Sat night so that doesnt really work

    Silly me started thinking I put to much pressure on her (meeting my daughter, sleeping at mine for 1st time) where I should have said, I've got my daughter and thinking of taking her to the Easter show want to join?

    I started over analyzing with her statement and wording and how she didnt really make a suggestion (you see she doesnt have a car, so trying to organize my daughter and go out and pick her up to come back my way is inconvenient)

    I didnt respond and the stubborn side of me kicked in waiting for her to ask me about sunday plans. I felt it was up to her as she dismissed me suggested plan

    The weekend passed and it was Monday night that I realized I have got to do something! So I sent this

    Me:I saw a girl at lunch time jogging and she had band aids on her knees. It made me think of you.. I then just had to go buy a pack of juicy fruit. (made references to 2 things 1. she likes running and fell over once crazing her knees, 2. Her nickname was juicy fruit)

    It has been 24 hours and have not got a reply.

    What do you think guys? Where did it go wrong? Is she pissed because I didn't respond and maybe she been wondering all weekend waiting for me?

    I feel that I've sent that last message so I shouldnt contact her again. If no response what should I do?

    Thanks Guys and sorry for the long post

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    Default Re: Dating HB "Ali Larter" I think I've lost her

    Ok she finally replied 20 hours later!
    Her: Haha, I'm actually still bruised from that fall. How was your weekend?

    Not sure what to do here, I dont like bs games and a little annoyed as to why its taking her so long here. I really want to avoid delaying my response back as I just dont want to get caught up in that shit. Should I call her out on it in a joking way as to why it takes her so long. Like maybe make a joke about thinking she got kidnapped?

    Where to go from here? I want things to move forward with regular meetups.

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    Default Re: Dating HB "Ali Larter" I think I've lost her

    You failed at day 3. You got sexual and didnt go all the way? You should have packed up and went home. You know that was a test right? If she let you touch her privately or she gives you a hand job it means you are good to go for landing.
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    Default Re: Dating HB "Ali Larter" I think I've lost her

    Yes and No.. I was pushing on from the foreplay and that's when she stopped me and said its to soon for sex 9 I can respect that because I'm looking for possible LTR and dont forget she out of a 10year relationship.

    I moved her from the lounge onto her bed and continued there. No matter how much I tried she wouldnt let me take her panties off all the way. Part of it I think is also because she wasn't shaved and then on Day 6 brazillian!

    Pretty sure I'm not in the situation I'm at now because of day 3 because we have moved on from that and we had sex on day 6.

    Question is where to go from here, I dont want to play this delayed text bs but also dont want to come across as needy by replying too soon after her 20+ hour delay

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    Default Re: Dating HB "Ali Larter" I think I've lost her

    Look, if she is pulling away maybe she feels that you are pushing to much. 10 years is a long time. IMO you should be the one to create the distance first, make other plans, occupy yourself and make her come to you.

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    Default Re: Dating HB "Ali Larter" I think I've lost her

    Not the replay you are looking for but ....Ali Larter is HOT !


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