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    Nargen1985 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Question Game over even before it starts ??

    Hello PUAs around the globe !

    Here i come with another thing to ask you out.

    Last Thursday over the work a female friend just starting showing me her friends trying to get me someone new. So when she showed me this HB i just said "woa this one looks nice". After that she told that she would go out in the weekend with her plus another 7 girls and invited me to go with their.

    On saturday when i met their in a country club she just presented me to everyone. Until there everything was going fine.

    I did my best to get as a long time friend with everyone of the group including the boyfriend of one the girls.

    Talking with him (he was a little drunk...) he told me that my work friend was trying to pull the HB to me showing pictures and my FB page. I think that's was a bad move since i didn't want to go talk with her having the idea planted in her mind that everything i could talk would be to try something besides the friendship.

    To make the things worst the boyfriend of the other girl just leave my side and walked towards the hb and started whispering something in her ear. After it he calls me to the bar and told me that he was "making my image" with her ...

    Crap ! In my opinion it just left me as a beta status who was afraid to talk with her ...

    So the night ends and i didn't had a nice talk with the HB. Being sincere i almost didn't even talked to her !

    This co-worker invited me today to go travel with her and the girls again (including the HB) but i really dunno if i should go once i would only go there if i still have a chance.

    BTW the other friends aren't HBs. The best one is a HB6 and i don't think its smart to focus on multiple targets while i still have a chance.

    Any recommendations ?

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    Default Re: Game over even before it starts ??

    Look man, in any big group like that you have to TALK to everyone. Its very very important to MEET the hb your friend found for you. Remember to be the buyer and make that girl qualify to you. It already is strange that it was set up for you. So In order to control what the girl knows about you, its important to talk to her yourself. Letting that other guy "create your image" is beta. He doesn't even know you and he may or may not want to help. So In a situation like this when you go out. AND YOU SHOULD go out with them again. Say that you never really talked but your friend has told you good things. Be social have fun, and get to know all the friends and more importantly the girl whose there for you. Address that elephant in the room. You can do this but you have to see how far it can go. Take control of your own image and go!

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    Nargen1985 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Game over even before it starts ??

    In other words i should go travel with them !

    It's good to know that my game isn't completely lost.


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