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Thread: Hey Quick first text, I want your great ideas!

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    Default Hey Quick first text, I want your great ideas!

    Met a petite and cute brunette in the library today. She was talking to some guy shortly and walked away to sit down. After establishing with the guy that they were not dating he was a classmate in her chemistry class I went over and told her that I got the go ahead from her classmate. Opening direct I said she was really cute. I got tons of IOI's: Smiling, eye contact, hair teasing for days, she asked for my number even when I laid down the False Time Constraint. Topics of convo: She is actually in her third year of Junior College, is 19, has a stalker who was actually in the library who I told her she should talk to to handle it. Just got out a 5 year relationship five months ago, she was wearing contacts but I teased that I knew she had brown eyes I think are cute. She said I caught her at a good time. Idk so any random First text openers, give em to me . I know if I can get this girl on a day 2 she'll freaking love me!

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    Default Re: Hey Quick first text, I want your great ideas!

    its not about delivering some magic words, the main theme i've been seeing alot lately is if u are the same in person as u are over text, ie funny, teasing playful and the list goes on they respond better overall

    just mention something brief about something funny that happened and then after 2 or 3 texts link it to a date

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    Default Re: Hey Quick first text, I want your great ideas!

    I said "Isnt the library the most amazing place to meet guys?" I feel stupid as she hasn't replied. If she likes me as much as I felt I should be good. Cant be worrying about one girl Im also hungry and I get all sad and emotional. Ima go eat a sandwich!

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    Default Re: Hey Quick first text, I want your great ideas!

    well yeah if u did good she'll reply, people have their own things to do too

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    Default Re: Hey Quick first text, I want your great ideas!

    Well the first text is the doubt of the doubts. It's as hard as to is to a virgin finding out where is the clitoris...

    The thing is, I think that the first texts should remain strict to the point... I mean, setting up meetings (in a playful way). Only when you have met several times should you 2 start texting more, otherwise you'll stumble on words and on topics, especially if you're kind newbie.
    I discovered this through the hard way.

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    Default Re: Hey Quick first text, I want your great ideas!

    Most things I've read say that setting up a date almost instantly is always bad. It scares girls off kinda. Its supposed to be low investment, funny, relating to the conversation. Even with those guidelines its hard to think of something good.

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    Default Re: Hey Quick first text, I want your great ideas!

    Don't stress it dude. Normally, you don't want to start off on a question, but whatever. In one case it may work, in another case it may not. I personally use the same opener every time. After a I get a number. The same night (maybe a couple hours later) I text this:

    Hey, this is (insert name). Save my number. It's the most important number you'll ever get

    Once she responds, don't say anything unless she asks a question. I'll then text her like a day or two later with conversation. Depending on how well the interaction went when I first met her, and how the texting convo went, I would either push for the date, or just hit her up again in a couple of days. Remember that you want to build comfort first. If you can build a lot of comfort when you initially meet, then it'll be safer for you if you push for a date early on. If you barely built up any comfort and rapport, I'll normally do 2 text convos or a text convo and a phone call before I push for the date. Also, understand that these are all just guidelines. You got to feel the situation out and adapt. Take everything on this forum said with a grain of salt. Every girl is different so not everything is going to work on every girl. At least not until you get good (that's a joke)

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    Default Re: Hey Quick first text, I want your great ideas!

    Quote Originally Posted by Devil_dog View Post
    Most things I've read say that setting up a date almost instantly is always bad. It scares girls off kinda. Its supposed to be low investment, funny, relating to the conversation. Even with those guidelines its hard to think of something good.
    Everything depends on the first interaction between you 2, or at least the last interaction where you got the number.

    I didn't express myself very well, you're right. I didn't want to say "yo yo yo A to the N to the N to the A yo, Anna is in da house, I'll get you by 12:59 to lunch, props from the whity white"

    Yeah, I agree that you should text something funny, call back humor mainly "yo yo older sister, just so you know that your little brother wasn't taken by any crazy girl, you'll still have to buy me drinks and I'll present you to my buddies", but don't extend too long. It's kinda like carrying a carrot in front of a donkey. Eventually he'll get tired.

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    Default Re: Hey Quick first text, I want your great ideas!

    I am a newbie but yesterday I got a number so I did some research as to how to send a perfect first text message. The rule sounds to be:

    1- Always give her a nick name
    2- Give only one sentence showing who you are (she might have given her number to many guys). This does not have to be fun.
    3- Give a witty cheeky question at the end. e.g. "do handsome guys hit on you in the library often?". this will make her reply and it's a compliment to you calling yourself handsome.

    I tried this last night and I got a great response

    good luck mate

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    Default Re: Hey Quick first text, I want your great ideas!

    If the nick name is something you called her (BFF for instance, older sister, etc), then you don't have to write any sentence about who you are. She'll remember you instantly. Call back humor.

    Don't ask. State. "Well, it's your lucky day (nickname), tomorrow we're going to exchange words live in a place where the grass is green, the sun is yellow and the coffee brown. Be ready at 16:16:016 ;-)"


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