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Thread: Ideas how to re-initiate this?

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    Default Ideas how to re-initiate this?

    So there is one girl I know for a month and yesterday I wanted to ask her out with a method I found on the internet where she tells you what she or women like and you use that on her.


    so I was like.. "Hey, know what, you`re girl, you may help me. See, I met a wonderful girl some time ago and would like to ask her out but don`t have an idea if you have any good for me. She replied with that guys should have ideas. I said yeah I know, I have many ideas but would like to hear what you girls like and she replied with we girls actually have no idea what we want haha then she unfortunately had to leave so I couldn`t continue.


    I was thinking I would continue next time with hey, do you know why I ask you for the ideas last time? She will probably say why or no and I reply with because you somehow know that person which will eventually lead to the point where I tell her it`s her I want to take out..


    your thoughts?

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    Default Re: Ideas how to re-initiate this?

    I don't really like it I'm afraid... It has all the hallmarks of a Hollywood rom-com; which is not a good thing!

    Approaching in this way makes you look very beta; essentially you're asking her permission to ask her out and I guarantee that she knows it.

    If you're already in the friendzone the only way to break out is by upping the flirting and then just being direct. It will save you a lot of time and effort.

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    Default Re: Ideas how to re-initiate this?

    How well do you know this girl? If you know her pretty well, you CAN follow up with this question but you should tell her what you like... and be funny. Exaggerate alot. You CAN do that but I really think sidewinder is right as far as the whole line being beta. Chances are she doesnt remember the conversation since she walked away. So just start fresh as if you never met or barely know each other (and there are a ton of threads about how to do this on here already).
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    Default Re: Ideas how to re-initiate this?

    Agreed with you folks. You were beta.

    If you wanna beta, try it in a funny, very exaggerated way. Something like "I really don't know what to do with girls, when I'm talking with one of you I go crazy legs and my dong goes to negative size. So I want you to tell me what to do... hey, I have an idea. We're forming up a partnership of pick up artists. You are the menthor, I'm your student. You don't get to practice on me, you can't take advantage of my pussiness...let's do this and be BFF."

    Something like that, I guess that would work :P

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    Default Re: Ideas how to re-initiate this?

    The thing is.. When everything would come to a point where I would have to tell her who the girl is, I would take her hand and bring her in front of the window (there are windows all around) and tell her to have a look in that window and she will be able to see her reflection, that cute one.


    Now I know this is more beta than alfa but it definitely is kinda funny and creative thing to do. She is more or less always in a bad mood when I see her (it`s usually in the morning) so I would like to at least cheer her up a bit first. I asked some girls what do they think about this and all have said it`s cute, creative, funny and that I should do it.. (girls around their 20s)


    well, I`ll see

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    Default Re: Ideas how to re-initiate this?

    Nope. Your problem is you're trying to force a scene from a movie. This is my motto and it should be yours too, "Always go direct." Indirect is for bitch nigg*s.

    I would say this. "Your advice is terrible, good thing I'm a boss or else I'd be heart broken (laughing and joking of course). Imma hit on the next hot girl I see. *look at her* Option A) If you're a real boss after you look at her just take her hand and start walking. When she says something, just say you're cute, we're going to get some coffee. Option B) You're cute, I'm going to grab some coffee, come with me (or whatever the hell you feel like doing)." You tell her what's up, you don't ask. Trust me bro don't play those stupid games. Girls ALWAYS know what's coming, and it comes off as being a passive little bitch. I'm using naughty language to scare you away from taking this pussy route. Be a man and claim that sh1t no questions asked. If she say's no then you persist. If she still says no then you just drop that bitch like cayenne peppers. At the end of the day, it's respect men desire. You don't get respect for acting like a pussy punk bitch.

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    Default Re: Ideas how to re-initiate this?

    You are not a psychologist, so it's not your job to do everything you can to make her smile. She probably has a dozen problems not related to you, or inner issues, that won't go away just because you make her laugh.

    What you must do is to have fun. Just that. Be self amused and amusing. Tease her and she'll laugh.

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    Default Re: Ideas how to re-initiate this?

    You may be right, you may be wrong.. I guess everything depends on the girl. I`m just wondering why all the girls I asked about this said it`s great way to do it. Just wondering...


    well I`ll think of something and tell you what I did and how it worked

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    Default Re: Ideas how to re-initiate this?

    My friend, women are special. They are farking amazing, every single one of them has 1 thing that makes them special in a unique way. They are driven by emotions, which means they love when they see Romeo doing 409589483 things for Juliet. It's drama, they love drama. Drama is their favourite emotion...

    However, if you do 248348 things for a girl, she'll get tired of you. fark, why do they love Romeo and not you? What they love to see isn't necessarily what they like guys to do for them.

    They don't quite know what makes them attracted to a man, but they know what makes them not.

    Do yourself a favour and don't do what a girl tells you to do. Do what your intuition feels right. Not what your heart says. Or you mind. Your intuition.

    I'll give you an example.

    Her: "oh, do u want to have a coffee tomorrow? To talk about sh1t and shat. Come pick me up at my home at 15."
    Me: "hello, good idea! I'll pick you up in the library (for example) at 16:30. We'll go to a coffee near the beach ;-)"
    Her: "Humm I like it "

    So, what's the point?

    We'll begin with the last one. Your intuition will tell you "fark that, I won't answer that "hum that's the way I like it aham aham, that's the way I like it, I like it"" thing, your heart/mind will tell you to. Ignore them.

    Then, you are not accepting her terms, you're re-framing it into your "comfort zone", thus she'll have to give an extra effort if she wants to be with you. My way or no way.

    A girl will tell you: "oh, so sweet!! Go grab her at her home, she'll love your sweetness! Plus, consider buy her something". Your intuition will tell you the contrary. What do you think the girl will prefer?

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    Default Re: Ideas how to re-initiate this?

    Um u come to this site for REAL advice from men who have used proven techniques to get girls. Why even come here if you'd rather get advice from women? We ALL could do that but we dont. Why??? BECAUSE WE KNOW IT DOESNT WORK. We listened to what women told us they liked and tried it. Its only after we started PUA did we see our game improve.

    Try your way. I guarantee it will be super awkward for her and she will give a nervous smile or a courtesy Thanks.
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