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Thread: How to make her not feel like a Slut but a Lady

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    Default How to make her not feel like a Slut but a Lady

    Hi guys,

    Im pretty new to the game. Starting off by reading the book, 'The Game'

    I just read something interesting on Page 57.

    "I bought books on body language, flirting, and sexual technique. I read
    anthologies of women's sexual fantasies, like Nancy Friday's My Secret Garden, in order to internalize the idea that women actually want sex as much as—if not more than—men; they just don't want to be pressured, lied to, or made to feel like a slut."

    Now this says that girls dont want to feel like a slut. I jut want to know what you guys think of this. Is this true. Some people will say women love being handled, like a slut, especially in bed. Like a real alpha male. Im just abit confused.

    Any help will be appreciated.

    Regards,

    Hitman

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    Default Re: Slut or Lady

    Well in my opinion, I guess that every woman enjoys a good quality fuck. However, some of them are shy and ashamed of confessing that, so they are seen as "frigid". Once they let go their shame, let the sweet rough love be made.

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    Default Re: Slut or Lady

    "Slut" is a social stigma. What Neil Strauss means is that women don't want to have that social stigma attached to them. This means that women will behave in a certain manner in public so that the stigma isn't attached to them. Once you get them behind closed doors things change.
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    Default Re: Slut or Lady

    That makes sense. Basically we don't make them "feel" like a slut. We also dont give them that reputation. But behind close doors its OK.

    I also understand what Lenric said about them being frigid. Make sense.

    Thanks guys,

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    Default Re: How to make her not feel like a Slut but a Lady

    I got into talking about it with some girl one time....they mentioned about how society views it and how guys can talk about twomping any girl they want and its ok but if some female was to talk the same way about guys it is highly frowned upon thus making them be a whore.

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    Default Re: How to make her not feel like a Slut but a Lady

    Quote Originally Posted by Dj Chill View Post
    I got into talking about it with some girl one time....they mentioned about how society views it and how guys can talk about twomping any girl they want and its ok but if some female was to talk the same way about guys it is highly frowned upon thus making them be a whore.
    Not quite everywhere, my friend. On my high school swim team, the girls loved to do something called the hot seat. It's where they would put the swimmers in the little seat in the back of the bus and interrogate each other on their sex lives. They get a ton of entertainment and thrills out of it.

    It doesn't just stop at the swim team. It's pretty much everywhere if you're there at the right time. Girls love to gossip about getting at guys. It's just one of those things that they love to do.
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    Default Re: How to make her not feel like a Slut but a Lady

    Some people will say women love being handled, like a slut, especially in bed.
    while i dont have concrete evidence so u can disreguard this but i wouldnt entirely, id say that most of the frequent club chicks who think theyre top sh1t would go down this path, as opposed to chicks u meet in the day, stab in the dark

    and besides if a chick wants u to treat her like a slut and ur not doing a good job of it, she'll pretty much let u know cause she'll get frustrated

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    Default Re: How to make her not feel like a Slut but a Lady

    Thanks all. Much Appreciated
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    Default Re: How to make her not feel like a Slut but a Lady

    This is why you isolate. A women will not like being sexual in public because of social stigmas (remember, women love celebs and gossip. They do not want to even think for a second that anyone will see them misbehave in public ala Lilo or KimK. So they hide the sexual side.)

    However, when it comes down to the bedroom... they want to fark like wild animals. Not all want to be manhandled roughly but a little bit of it helps (spanking, hair pulling, light biting). This is why its important to learn about her sexual preferences during attraction/qualification.

    Once you get her alone, kino her. Once you get to the bedroom, foreplay her to death... for a half hour if she needs it. Once she is ready, then the "slut" will come out!

    And a sidenote... that word should never come from your lips unless she asks you to call her that during sex or you know she is super freaky. Same goes for b!t˘h, whore etc...
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