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Thread: Trying to Keep Booty Call in my Back Pocket

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    Default Trying to Keep Booty Call in my Back Pocket

    Okay I'll try to sum up the situation. Met this girl 4 years ago. 15 years younger than me, 19 at the time, go me!. Turned her into a booty call for 2-3 months. Shagged the hell out of her every time and I'm not being cocky when I say she was satisfied and wanted more and more.

    She got attached and wanted to date me. I told her flat out that was not what I was after. Shagged a few more times after that then she got herself a boyfriend. Shagged her one more time when she was dating him then she put a stop to it because she didn't want to feel like a slut.

    She got serious with this guy and I got into a relationship with someone as well. I tried to keep my old booty call as a friend and it was a touch free friendship for about 6 months. It was difficult to hide from my gf at the time and my old booty was open with her man about us and long story short we had to stop hanging around.

    No contact for 3 years. My current relationship is on rocky roads and could very well end. So I broke NC with my old booty and simply texted to see what was new in her life.

    She responded quickly and after a bit I ended it with "great to get caught up, keep in touch" I got a similar response back.

    It's been over a month and I have not heard from her in anyway at all.

    I have 2 goals. If my relationship works out then I want to keep the old booty as a friend. If I end up single then I want to start banging my old booty call again.

    What's my next move? I feel like the ball is in her court.

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    Default Re: Trying to Keep Booty Call in my Back Pocket

    I'm getting no love. Should this be in the newbie section?

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    Smile Re: Trying to Keep Booty Call in my Back Pocket

    Since its been so long since you saw her you should suggest meeting up with her. Of course you will clearly have to state to her that this is just as friends and make sure your the one to tell her that nothing can happen. By setting the mark like that she may be intrigued to step over it, or if she agrees to meet up with you her guard may be down. From here approach as you like. The key here is setting up a proper face to face meeting and take it from there.
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    Default Re: Trying to Keep Booty Call in my Back Pocket

    First and foremost, focus on being faithful. Try to salvage your relationship and build back upon it. The moment you mentally check out, it's done.

    After that it's simply a means of re-initiating contact. Girls are very flaky in nature when placed into situations like "here's my number, call me" or "Nice talking to you, let's keep in contact." It normally takes some comfort building before they'll freely start initiating contact of that sort. Just talk (text or call) to her once or twice, and then go for the meetup. Again, I wouldn't push for this until your other relationship is done with. That's my moral code though so do as you please.

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    Default Re: Trying to Keep Booty Call in my Back Pocket

    Okay it's time for an update.

    My girl and I are over. It's official and I do not want here back because it will lead to an unhappy future in the long run.

    I'm needing to get laid soon. My old booty call I thought would be the best bet but I'm getting some resistance.

    Lets call her K. K was 19 when I met her, shagged the hell out of her and after 5 months she wanted to date. I'm 15 years older and said no, not what I want. We both found other people but continued to be friends. This became a jealously issue for both our partners at the time. So I broke contact (mistake I know). Here I am 3 years later. I text here to see what's new in her life, seemed to go well. Ended it with lets stay in touch. One month later I gave her a call. She seemed happy to hear from me but the conversation was like 10 mins cause she was on her way to the airport to drop ante off. Said she would call me back. 2 days later I get a text saying she forgot to call me back and now is in Mexico on vacation and will call me when she returns. The mexico part is true forsure. 3 weeks go by and it was a 2 week vacation. So I texted to ask how it was. No reply...

    What's my next move boys??? Honestly I'd even settle for just a friendship but I'm aiming for sex.

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    Default Re: Trying to Keep Booty Call in my Back Pocket

    Scenarios like these, time has usually run it's course. There's not much you can really do if you don't ever see her (like cross paths and such). Don't settle. Always aim for what you want, and then either attain it or fail. Settling is for those not brave enough to accept defeat. Honestly speaking though my friend, it's time for you to get your mind off of her. Go out and sarge and continue building up your game. If you feel like it, wait some time and you can try texting her again. Some sort of cliff hanger text would be ideal.

    Sample text I use (got this from Alex Coulson, a PUA I found on youtube)

    "The weirdest thing just happened... I just saw this cat in the street that looks exactly like you. Message me back quickly so I know a wizard hasn't turned you into a cat lol"

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    Default Re: Trying to Keep Booty Call in my Back Pocket

    "The weirdest thing just happened... I just saw this cat in the street that looks exactly like you. Message me back quickly so I know a wizard hasn't turned you into a cat lol"
    haha i like it, but the message me back part? sounds a bit clingy but maybe that's just my view?

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    Default Re: Trying to Keep Booty Call in my Back Pocket

    Quote Originally Posted by hyp View Post
    "The weirdest thing just happened... I just saw this cat in the street that looks exactly like you. Message me back quickly so I know a wizard hasn't turned you into a cat lol"
    haha i like it, but the message me back part? sounds a bit clingy but maybe that's just my view?
    I thought the same thing too, but it legitimately works. Maybe it comes off as more alpha in this sense since you're telling her. I don't know. Definitely try it sometime though


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