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Thread: Is this a definetly no

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    Default Is this a definetly no

    Hey,

    Its kind of a rhetorical question but she got under my skin.

    So I asked this girl out and she said she:

    Hey (used my name which she hasn't ever done before). I can't on that day.

    In my opinion a I don't want to hurt your feelings: "no", but some input is much appreciated.

    I also want to know for 100% sure. So should I just ask her again (I said wednesday so ask again on monday or tuesday) on same idea, ask her again on new idea, ask her to be clear about yes or no,...

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    Default Re: Is this a definetly no

    She said not on that day. To me that's implying she wants you to ask her again sometime. But what do I know, I'd ask again. Why not?

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    Default Re: Is this a definetly no

    Don't worry about it she is probably just busy, and of course you should ask again, always ask again.. No girl is gonna want to go out with a guy who gives up on the first try, ask again and keep asking until she says yes or gives you a straight up NO. What's there to lose?
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: Is this a definetly no

    Quote Originally Posted by Thatoneguyonforums View Post
    Don't worry about it she is probably just busy, and of course you should ask again, always ask again.. No girl is gonna want to go out with a guy who gives up on the first try, ask again and keep asking until she says yes or gives you a straight up NO. What's there to lose?
    Just curious, how long should he wait till he asks again/initiates texting?

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    Default Re: Is this a definetly no

    I'm curious too

    BTW I accidentally replied to her text with something stupid.

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    Default Re: Is this a definetly no

    If in person which would be ideal, I'd say the next time you see her. If you're texting wait a day maybe two and then go for it. Whether in person or through text always make sure you get a solid conversation going before you ask her out again, get in a laugh or two and ask at the high point of the conversation to increase your chances of getting a yes. As for the accidental text, if you've sent it recently just text again saying something like "My bad, didn't mean to send that " if it's too late for that just act like it didn't happen and text her in a couple of days. I would advise asking her in person though, if possible. Good luck.
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    Default Re: Is this a definetly no

    So how would you ask her again? Don't acknowledge the previous ask out, acknowledge it,...???

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    Default Re: Is this a definetly no

    You're thinking to much, just do it.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: Is this a definetly no

    Quote Originally Posted by M_ROCAL View Post
    So how would you ask her again? Don't acknowledge the previous ask out, acknowledge it,...???
    Mate, don't ask. State. Don't think. Do. The less you think the more you feel.
    Best of luck

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    Default Re: Is this a definetly no

    I just love different points of view :-p


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