Its kind of a rhetorical question but she got under my skin.
So I asked this girl out and she said she:
Hey (used my name which she hasn't ever done before). I can't on that day.
In my opinion a I don't want to hurt your feelings: "no", but some input is much appreciated.
I also want to know for 100% sure. So should I just ask her again (I said wednesday so ask again on monday or tuesday) on same idea, ask her again on new idea, ask her to be clear about yes or no,...