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    Default Step by step

    Is there a step by step guide on how to qualify on here? I believe that that is a major gap in my game and can't figure out exactly what I'm doing wrong in the qualification process.
    Thanks guys.

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    Default Re: Step by step

    What exactly do you mean by qualify? Do you mean qualifying yourself to her, or how to get her to qualify herself to you? And are there any specifics you've noticed where you've messed up? I don't know about a thread but maybe I can help if you could be a bit more specific on the situation.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: Step by step

    Well I'.m not exactly sure what step i mess up on. I have problems vibing intent and from what I'm told that is qualifying. When i go into a set my thought process is obviously I'm interested because I'm talking to you and obviously you're interested because you're still standing there talking to me. I'll get the number but no relays when i send a flirty text so that leads me to believe my problem is vibing intent

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    Default Re: Step by step

    Look man qualifing is part of push pull, you push with negs and showing disinterest until you feel she is almost being put off but then you pull in with something as simple as your really fun! Or a little kino or more interest shown. Qualifying shows her your really into her actually not just completely to entertain yourself. You see?

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    Default Re: Step by step

    Yeah I think i have it now. I need to do more kino as well i think. I'm pretty new to the game still and i was never a touchy guy so its still a little weird for me to just walk up and touch a stranger even tho there really is nothing weird about it. Lol. So when you qualify her you just say little statements like your fun or interesting or something like that? I thought you had to make her qualify herself.

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    Default Re: Step by step

    I think what may be happening is you may not be portraying yourself as an Alpha, you go up ask for a number get it and leave, almost like a business transaction. What you want to do is give the impression that you want to take her out and not just get her number. Now I don't know you, or how you pick up girls, or the way you act when you do it, so i'm just going to assume you're new and haven't read up on a lot of the stuff on here.

    There's a few things you need to remember when picking up girls. While helpful, it's not about how attractive you are physically, it's about how confident you are in yourself and how well you can portray that to her. A few things you can look up on here to help you with this are Body language, Day game, Pick ups, inner game, and DHV.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: Step by step

    Here is a field report from a number close i got at my college library. This may help shed some light on what it is. I dont think that I'm doing it like a business transaction but i could be wrong. Here is the link.

    http://www.puaforums.com/pick-up-fie...ld-report.html

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    Default Re: Step by step

    Well it seems you have got it, possibly read up on body language and kino, and work on thinking on the fly like you said. And you didn't get a reply from her? or did she flake on you? You might want to read up on the text game, that will help you get the girls out after you've N-closed.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: Step by step

    Kino Kino Kino, a very fancy word for touching.

    A big quantity of people think of the attraction phase as a cientific equation. Oh dear, so many variables, gotta calibrate x, y and z.

    Don't think of it in that terms. Do this:
    Say whatever the fuck you want (obviously not something like "oh god, you make my dong suck itself"). Tease her, don't be afraid. When you're teasing her, when you're giving her a hard time about something she says/do (for example, her accent), she'll qualify herself. If she exercises "oh, you go to the gym... are u 1 of that girls who goes there just to exercise your legs and ass to make them bigger?" (in a playful way and smiling of course)... and she'll qualify herself. When you put her in a defensive position (not by insulting her), she'll qualify herself. No fancy techniques (though they'll help you in the beginning).

    Good luck out there

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    Default Re: Step by step

    Yeah i need to get Kino and i need to work on teasing really hot chicks. Lol. I have no problem teasing HB7s or below but 8s 9s and 10s i draw a blank when i go to tease them. It actually pisses me off. Lol. I have no idea why this happens to me because when i actually man up and approach my nerves calm down and im good but i just draw blanks when i go to tease.


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