Re: Change BORING conversations to FUN... how?
Depending on how well you know her, a poke approach could work. This involves you poking her, having her poke you back, and then messaging her "Did you poke me?". From there, you just proceed to tease her and entertain not only her, but yourself as well.
One method that I have invented that has not failed yet works very well for college campuses. This strategy involves you doing a bit of Facebook creeping to find out her likes and such. After this, you ask if you saw her in public and associate her with the certain activity that you share in common with her.
For example, there was a girl I was interested in, who I have never even met before. I discovered that she was interested in Duke Ellington, and I was familiar with a famous jazz festival of the same name. I decided to message her on Facebook this:
"Excuse me, but did I see you wearing an Essentially Ellington shirt today?"
This was three weeks ago. Now, we are very familiar with each other, and we have met in public before. Things are moving steadily and at a pace that I please to set it at, which makes me happy.
Always try to be creative with your first message. "Hey, what's up?" is the quickest way to say "Just kick me in the arse and out the door right now".
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X