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    Default Learned to keep spontaneous but jarred from her traumatic events

    So there is this girl at my local store who caught my eye, cute, funny and intelligent. In all my time with finally dealing and talking with girls and the help of this forum I am able to continue with being spontaneous and keep the "dead air time" to a minimal when face to face. I was thinking bout number closing but its only been the second day and actually building rapport. She started talking how her day was horrible and people shew knew passed away..I wanted to comfort her but also wanted to steer her away so I focused on what she loves in her hobbies..Next time I will see her is probably a week. She is pretty busy and has a same schedule 24/7 work,school,etc . But I think she has genuine interest, I already used up my excuse to see her this week and cant use the second one..next time should I just outright tell her I came to visit cause she's cute then escalate it from there?

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    Default Re: Learned to keep spontaneous but jarred from her traumatic events

    On the whole death thing. I managed to handle that before. Let her talk and listen and then cut off the thread with the next thing you say, If you listened and nodded she knew you heard she will go along with whatever positive thread you put up. Or bonus points for finding the joy in the situation. reframe death for her as like how spanish culture celebrates it as a life well lived. Quick reframes are key there. Also you dont need an excuse to see her. Your an alpha male and you want to make it happen. Have no shame just dont be needy.


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