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    reasonmontague is offline PUA in Training
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    Default How to gauge her interest level.

    Ive been seeing this girl for about 3months, she cooks me dinner, comes to my house, we see each other roughly 3-5 time a week. We meet up, hang out, do something and always end up having sex. Now for me, Ive been getting bored with sex, but thats a different topic. Ill stick to the script here. She seems to be very into, very affectionate, enjoys spending time with you but there is something off that I cant quite explain. One night, we were drunk, and she started to get a little upset with me, and was like "you are so hard to read".. Im all what do you mean, as far as my emotions go.. she cant tell if I like her. She tells me "That she likes me and likes spending time with me" I just told her that I cant tell her how I feel because it will come out wrong, but I can just show, trust my actions sort of guy.

    That goes on.. same thing she cooks me food, we hang out, we dont text much throughout the day, Ill just call her and invite her out. So there is where I have a question, sometimes she wont answer my call... but a cpl of hours later shes calling me multiple times and texting me. The last time she did this...

    She called me three times in a row.. I was asleep
    Her: Sweet dreams
    Her: I wish I could hear your voice right now
    Her: and snuggle
    Her: Guess you got that all figured out
    Her: (Next morning)... Just in case... wanted to tell you, good morning and that I was thinking about you obviously (insert smiling blushy face). Hope your day is great. Its gorgeous!
    Me: Good morning
    Me: That lil sundress you had on in my dream last night... got me thinking
    Her: Youre real cute.

    That was the last time we exchanged text, I think shes out of town, she told me she was going to head out Thursday morning. These text happened Wednesday to Thursday morning... I had plans Thursday, So I didnt call her. But what do you think with what has been said...

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    Default Re: How to gauge her interest level.

    Hah! I had one just like that once, little bit crazy but I said whatever. They can get a little bit overbearing sometimes but just think.. the games basically won at this point, you call the shots! Right? Just be careful, it can get really sour really fast if you don't handle the situation right. Think of her as a cute little time bomb, you cut the wrong wire and she's gonna blow up in your face. Just be cool, don't do anything stupid, and it will all be peaches and cream.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: How to gauge her interest level.

    Yeah Im calling the shots... As far as messing up, what do you mean?

    I want to make her my girl, yet she hasnt brought any of that up in that field and seems to just be going with the flow. Which I am not used... Should I bring it up to her?

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    Default Re: How to gauge her interest level.

    Sometimes I feel like she is seeing another guy, and she is out of town at the moment and I wanted to call her to set something up for when she gets back.

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    Default Re: How to gauge her interest level.

    Hey man.you obviously have an attracted girl on your hands but what i didn't like about your post is what you said about this.

    "Im all what do you mean, as far as my emotions go.. she cant tell if I like her. She tells me "That she likes me and likes spending time with me" I just told her that I cant tell her how I feel because it will come out wrong, but I can just show, trust my actions sort of guy. "

    The only thing you should be weary of is if another guy shows her he is bold enough to show his feelings and still be attractive. instead of through actions only.

    As for seeing other guys you should not be focused on that you should have gotten a few friends on the side already.lets face it y'all are not exclusive yet.even if you become its just talking


    it is very risky to tell you to tell the girl straight up but on the other hand if you do not take care of this block and she is expecting, you have not led and that could hurt her overall attraction towards you.

    At this point i'll tell you to find a way of showing intent that is emotional but also attractive/alpha.there was one time i was scared to tell a girl i love you back.this almost broke our relation.the way i kinda knew she might have dropped other guys was when i tried to drop a dhv story that had happened to me(over gaming here,not anymore) and she told me wow so you're seeing other girls..Of course i had to spin it around.but seriously.

    your situation goes beyond pick up your girl wants to be lead there . on the other hand if you don't choose your words carefully or escalate properly you could loose her.Don't dread theres is hope.You kind of have her already.

    Just don't wait too long.its best to tell her on your next opportunity.Remember if it doesn't work out there are many other girls.don't forget to make a new friend if you haven't already.It best to give it a shot at escalation than to sit around wondering what it could be.Goodluck


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