Re: Steps of becoming a PUA
I'd say the best way to improving your game is to do a study and execute method. Pick a few books to start out with, and just start reading them. Read the threads on here and begin to formulate answers to the questions poised. Also, take into consideration the words of the masters and allow them to form your perceptions.
You will discover that as you do this, you will actually become self-conscious of what you do. Relatively fast, you will begin to link what you are doing with what you have read. The technological thinking brain begins to rapidly click, and you become strategic and systematic. This ability is man's greatest advantage, and where it was once a disadvantage to women now becomes your greatest weapon.
Over time, you will discover that what you were self-conscious of is now natural. You no longer think about it, and you just do it. This is how you get to the point of being a PUA.
To give you a good start, I recommend starting with the Game. It's one of those you have to read basic books. I actually only got halfway through it before I became curious about the other things I was reading in there. Start at one focal point, and then as your curiosity piques you, branch out.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X