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    Default Re: What should I do next with girl I am texting

    Thanks for the responses. Ok, so I wanna get her as a girlfriend. As the texting situation, when I said why aren't you responding, she said it wasn't that long, but when I said "you should try more to get me", she apologized and promised not doing that again.

    Swaggyman you subtly called her out and that is bad, never ask why, she had the choice to do what she did and we don't care....focus on your game outcome with her.As you improve you may not have these problems.

    Well, I wrote her today, had a pretty good text, played well with the "happy easter wishes" as I've said to her that I didn't wish her "happy easter", because I was waiting for her to write (wishing happy easter is a big thing here). So yeah, I said that she should start writing me and surprise from time to time, so she said she'll be doing that.

    Yeah right i bet she will.Hey you've taken action and we've touched on that but i personally don't think she will be responsive to you if you don't keep the attraction going.Since you're starting out its okay but on future sarges and handling we will not take this.In a nutshell don't do that too.you were kinda kissing up to her when you texted that she should text you happy easter. in my opinion it was not really needed.lets focus on attracting her more first.

    After talking with her, I pretty much think she's the type of girl who just puts her phone away and doesn't play games that much, or... I can be really wrong about that.
    Every girl has got options but there are some girls who just keep it going always.the ones that don't may just be looking for same thing but handle it differently but still.i won't be shocked if i had her phone and saw some flirty text messages to other guys since you last spoke.don't let this get to you.guys are like that too.For now you are learning so keep your options open.

    You know, I don't go a lot forward with messages, but when the time comes and we meet, I do pretty well, really would have kissed her if I had a window on date 2, so on date 3 it's either kiss close or peace out to her and move on .

    Good!!.In future if you can get it in the first(just met them) and second(meetup) like i said go for it.but don't slack on the third if it doesn't pan out.. move on.then you may come back.the mindset is to build into your paradigm here is to not get stuck on one and also enjoy the full breath exploring has to offer you.be safe!!

    on not being scared of rejection, calibration and looking out for windows really helps.is she flirting harder,touching you whilst talking,laughing hard at your jokes all are windows.it better than just going with it.

    there are some women if you keep pushing too hard which may likely happen if you have the mindset of not getting rejected when starting out you may kill the attraction.Its best to practice with gauging from body language and windows with time you will get intuition and you can just tell.

    yep on oh snap just keep it moving its our culture.You may update this thread.



    I wouldn't recommend making this girl your girl since you're just starting but on the other hand if you do and even get her don't quit making new 'friends'.Peace

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    Default Re: What should I do next with girl I am texting

    Yeah, even know I like this girl, I'm still in a DGAF mindset, I'm still learning, so even if I screw up it ain't a big deal for me. I'm just trying new stuff and pretty much trying to get used to the game. You made some really good points HardRock, gonna keep this in mind.
    So yeah, after this I created this post, she texted me asking a favour, I was too busy and didn't help her (if I wasn't busy, I think I wouldn't help her either, my take on that it's a one way ticket to friendzone). So after this "favour text" I haven't texted her and I think I'll text just to arrange another meetup and look how it will go from there. I hate that I made that one big mistake of not k closing her on second date. Hopefully, I'll be able to get back the attraction on third date and make it happen. And about 'new friends', I always like meeting new people and when I'm in a relationship, I don't let my gf tell me to let me talk to this or talk to that, so it's not a problem.
    I think I'm sticking to this forum from now on, cheers

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    Default Re: What should I do next with girl I am texting

    Liking a girl always messes up my game too. Most recently ive met a girl that was really awesome, got her number and we texted a few time. But when i mentioned meeting up again casually she never responded, which is really obnoxious. Should i text her again maybe about an unrelated topic?

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    Default Re: What should I do next with girl I am texting

    Yeah, I agree, but if you have that don't give a damn mindset to communicate with a girl, then you will make it happen. I think you should build some rapport first through messaging if you want to meet her first. That's just my two cents.

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    Default Re: What should I do next with girl I am texting

    Quote Originally Posted by Swaggykay View Post
    Yeah, even know I like this girl, I'm still in a DGAF mindset, I'm still learning, so even if I screw up it ain't a big deal for me. I'm just trying new stuff and pretty much trying to get used to the game. You made some really good points HardRock, gonna keep this in mind.
    So yeah, after this I created this post, she texted me asking a favour, I was too busy and didn't help her (if I wasn't busy, I think I wouldn't help her either, my take on that it's a one way ticket to friendzone). So after this "favour text" I haven't texted her and I think I'll text just to arrange another meetup and look how it will go from there. I hate that I made that one big mistake of not k closing her on second date. Hopefully, I'll be able to get back the attraction on third date and make it happen. And about 'new friends', I always like meeting new people and when I'm in a relationship, I don't let my gf tell me to let me talk to this or talk to that, so it's not a problem.
    I think I'm sticking to this forum from now on, cheers
    Hey it may happen but at least you took action.with this drive and willingness am sure you would be escalating faster than you ever thought whilst taking precaution.The journey never stops even if one becomes 'comfortable' they should be open to learning new things and keep it moving.Well thats just me.

    On doing favors for girls its good that you didn't fall for that probable trap but in the future you may do things for girls when you feel like or after you have attracted them if you wish.Example if you and a girl have been hanging from morn and you decide to grab a bite to eat its not a bad thing.

    The key mindset here is why you're doing it.if you are doing it in a way whether subtle or not to suck up to her thats BAD!!.But if you do it because you and her are in a situation together and your taking care of her or both of you after attracting her thats alpha.

    On amping the attraction on the third date remember you must capture her attention again if you haven't already.Since you have had no problems getting this girl to come out to you,we will leave it as that.Escalate!!

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    Default Re: What should I do next with girl I am texting

    Quote Originally Posted by jazzyjeff View Post
    Liking a girl always messes up my game too. Most recently ive met a girl that was really awesome, got her number and we texted a few time. But when i mentioned meeting up again casually she never responded, which is really obnoxious. Should i text her again maybe about an unrelated topic?
    At this point if you text a hook or unrelated thing you may come across as try hard or simply using it as a way to get to her.
    Freeze her out for two days then meet a few girls whilst reviewing text guide on site.

    The only thing that may be wrong in your loophole is how to text a girl in a way that get her to meetup.This is not a bad thing.with pickup even after a successful round you may come back and review material since it helps incorporate the concepts better.That way you will begin to relate on a deeper level since you've had hands on experience.

    Every interaction you have should be a kind of 'trial' to you even if you find a girl you may like.the goal is not just become very good but gain experience that could aid you in a lifetime with women.GoodLuck!!

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    Default Re: What should I do next with girl I am texting

    Just an update with my girl. After that freeze out she wrote me a couple of times and we met for two days in a row. One day she want to my place, had a dinner with her and me doing the meal. A lot of kino, she was lying on me, we were close, I tried to kiss her, but she just put her cheek. The next day she went to the other city and I didn't see her for the weekend, tried to kiss close again, but she backed off, again. So, my idea is that she still needs time with me, because when we are together I pretty much show her every sign that I want her, but she hesitates and leaves some options. However, she shows that she wants me too but hesitates. Last night I texted her after she got back from the city, we texted a couple messages back and forth. I asked some kind of question, but she didn't respond. Well, I know I did a pretty bad move, but I wrote her if she doesn't want to talk to me, then I can stop writing. She responded immediatly that my message wasn't sent when it was and that I am thinking wrong that she doesn't want to talk to me.
    One more thing, someday she texted just a random text about how one of my songs is in the radio. I texted back that "good thing that the song reminds about me". No answer from her. Sh*t, the text game with her is pretty f-up, but oh well.
    So I'm pretty much not rushing with this girl and putting her on hold, after those kinda texts hopefully she'll be chasing.

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    Default Re: What should I do next with girl I am texting

    Even if a girl is giving you iois that much and theres is something wrong with the way you express interest or escalate she may a little put off.Sometimes even your facial expression and body language count.

    This girl seems to like you but you shouldn't have texted her that.
    "good thing that the song reminds about me"
    Its ok to assume attraction but in this case you were a bit extreme..What she gave you was a window and you could have threaded a bit then gone for the meetup.Whenever a girl texts you a compliment, a realization about you,or initiates chat its a window.Sometimes you can even go forward if they say hi.
    depending on how you utilized the opportunities.

    So I'm pretty much not rushing with this girl and putting her on hold, after those kinda texts hopefully she'll be chasing.
    Swaggyman you have done a great job!!.At least she is kind of attracted to you from what i received here.You just need to capture her mind space again.A lot of text game has gone on from what am seeing here and you should probably talk on the phone after a few days freeze out.you could try something reminded me of you and thread there.

    this could work on text but i dunno no what you mean by after those texts she will be kinda chasing.There are two types of chasing one that the girl pursues you just because you made some impression or the other where she is receptive to you.of course there are other factors but whether it will happen depends on a lot.

    Don't be focused on her chasing you too much even though am sure you may have some other women doing so if you have already gone out there.

    The goal with girls is to build attraction and keep moving forward.Focus on a girl to chase you if you mean by calling or text most of the time is bad.Just lead by being the man and taking advantage of windows and yes you may have some who will call you text you almost all the time but sometimes the ones that aren't doing that are the ones who may be waiting for escalation.Assume attraction and lead if its a no then we can back up...

    In a nutshell the next time you get a window escalate.safe!!.


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