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    Swaggykay is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default What should I do next with girl I am texting

    Ok, so I am new in PUA, a couple of months now, but after reading tons of good info and executing I can say that I'm a pretty fast learner. After a couple of easy going girls, I met this one that caught my eye. The initial day we went to the club and danced a lot with her, grindin and stuff. I know this girl for a week now and been on a so called date 2 times now. So the first day went pretty well, built rapport, little kino, the second one went even better, a lot of kino, sexual talking, but didn't kiss close, haven't found a right moment to kiss close. So in beetween that I texted her a couple of times, one time i texted the "long proposal text". the one where I say that I wasn't sleeping all night, couldn't think and at the end of the text asked a simple question and she loved it.
    But here's the catch, I don't know if she's busy, but she's writting me an hour, sometimes 30 minutes, one time I've been ignored for doing a neg. So, I've been persistent and wrote her 2 days in a row, then made a one day break, then wrote the proposal text and today is easter.
    I've been thinking to myself, should I freeze out her for writting that long, because she's not in the town this week and she'll be here at the end of the week, when she's back I'll arrange the date, but till then, do you think it's a good idea to freeze out her, or should I wish her happy easter?

    Thanks for reading it and hopefully I'll get some answers. Happy easter!

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    Default Re: What should I do next?

    woah you seem to be a take action kind of guy since you went on two dates with her on post, but why wouldn't you escalate.

    Never practice getting a kiss after 2 dates its supposed to happen on the first or the next meetup(very important).

    the girl gave you massive iois.she may be thinking either you want to continue from where you left of or you are a "safe guy"(the guy who wouldn't go down there).

    Add more options to your down-line.Don't get stuck on this.She seems to be the kind of girl that keeps it moving.probably has a lot of guys in the pipeline since she waits 30 mins or so to text back.Who knows that guy who has her attention got relegated.Some guys too are like this cause they are always looking and keep moving foward.

    The next time you meet her and you get an opportunity(window). escalate.read on ways to kiss close on the site..pay attention to what they convey and setup before they move forward and then incorporate it into your kino.Goodluck.

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    Default Re: What should I do next?

    Basicly you want her attention back ? I don't like running methods and games on girls and if I do I'll do it my way but anyways. If you want to hook up with her.

    I usted to have a girl like that. Outgoing and had a lot of guys in he arsenal. Most of the girls that are like that got family problems. The girl I had kept getting high, drink and so on and so on. She was attractive but her way of acting turned me off at some point so I drifted away.

    And on kissing on the second date like Hardrock, I wouldn't really care I'm not trying to get a girlfriend so I wouldn't be affected if she rejects me or what not.

    It depends what you want from her, if you want a girlfriend you'll most likely try to fix this if not, keep on playing. I'd want a GF but not a girl with a wide varieties of guys to hook up with, kna' mean. So I'mma meet girls and game them as I go.

    Tell us more tho'.
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    Default Re: What should I do next?

    thanks for the responses. Ok, so I wanna get her as a girlfriend. As the texting situation, when I said why aren't you responding, she said it wasn't that long, but when I said "you should try more to get me", she apologised and promised not doing that again.
    Well, I wrote her today, had a pretty good text, played well with the "happy easter wishes" as I've said to her that I didn't wish her "happy easter", because I was waiting for her to write (wishing happy easter is a big thing here). So yeah, I said that she should start writing me and surprise from time to time, so she said she'll be doing that. After talking with her, I pretty much think she's the type of girl who just puts her phone away and doesn't play games that much, or... I can be really wrong about that.
    You know, I don't go a lot forward with messages, but when the time comes and we meet, I do pretty well, really would have kissed her if I had a window on date 2, so on date 3 it's either kiss close or peace out to her and move on .

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    Default Re: What should I do next?

    If you're trying to make her your GF, don't give her negative emotions. If you're into her neg her in a playful way not in a way she would start questioning herself like an insecure person would. And beating around the bush is never good. Like the girl I explained I did that exactly and it ended up drifting away. I'd get in the sheets with her but wouldn't date or make her my girlfriend since she knows -too- many guys. Thats just my preference. Basicly make her feel coo' and give her compliments, don't abuse them and keep playful teasing and flirting in hand.
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    Default Re: What should I do next?

    About the whole texting situation. Most of the time the girl is genuinely busy, hence the delay so just wait it out .

    I appreciate this may be hard to do (I've been there) but there are ways to help. One way is by sending a completely random txt that has nothing to do with anything you are speaking about. For example it's been snowing quite a lot in England lately. So I sent a this text to a girl;
    'We should totally go outside now and make a snow angel x'

    Girls react and respond to random funny stuff better than chasing them for responses.
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    Default Re: What should I do next?

    Well, she knows a lot of guys, but really doesn't talk to them that much. All of the guys that I know are just friends and while we were on a date, she haven't gotten a text from anybody at the evening when all the text messaging usually happens. This dude I know was chasing her, but he got stuck in the friendzone and she told me all about it. I like when she's with me, she's devoting all the attention to me and even if someone calls her, she just hangs up the phone, but when she's out of the city and the only thing to stay in touch is texting, she takes long to answer, but if I tell her to write faster, she does that, but after a while, bad habbits come back and she puts her phone somewhere else. + she usually has her phone on vibration, so yeah.

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    Default Re: What should I do next?

    Well I guess you're on a good scenario she's just out of the city, who knows. Try not to be pushy neither. If you would of texted her ''Text faster'' she could of ejected easily.

    Once I was hanging at a friend's brother's house and his bro's girlfriend was there, she was going out and his brother told her ''Where do you think you're going ?'' She said she was going out and they started argueing, she left and she left him after that. Now, they don't talk but the fact he was pushy crumbled it all. So.. Don't be.
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    Swaggykay is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: What should I do next?

    Yeah, I'm trying to be balanced and I'm trying that she's chasing me and not me chasing her. I don't do the bossy attitude a lot and I know that it can be easily a dead end if she misunderstood my statements, but thing is, I got a friend who's really bossy and I know it's not the best thing that needs to be in a relationship. Me and this girl even talked about some points of relationship about being bossy and other stuff, and we agreed on most of 'em, so I think I'm on a right track. Now, it's either I get her to be my gf or just f close and have a good time. Once again, thanks for the responses OhSnap, really need it .

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    Default Re: What should I do next?

    No prob, when I say chasing tho' is in a needy way, as if you -need- to have her unless you'll feel bad about yourself. You can go after her simply by giving her compliments or having a chat you know any interaction is enough for a girl. Girls would do anything to get a guy they want. Although if a guy does that to a girl they wont like it because it'll be needy and show weekness. Thats why some girls abuse needy guys with money and you get the rest.

    Anyways, good luck and hope to see you more often around the forum. There's way more then just picking up girls in here. Holla.
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