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    Default First Date! Help

    I need general advice and principles for the first date.

    I met a cute girl on the beach yesterday. I used the A1-3 system, opened, demonstrated values, got her attracted to me. I didn't have my cell phone with me, but she put my number in her phone and texted me. I got it later.

    So she's into me and she's already texted back a second time, but I'm nervous about the first date, of screwing it up. It's Sunday, we met on Saturday, when do I text her for a date, and what day, how many days from now?!

    Also, are there any general guidelines for first dates from the community?

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    Default Re: First Date! Help

    Just get a good text conversation going, get a couple laughs and some good texts from her and then ask her out. Don't worry about the amount of days, just as long as you follow the guidelines above. As for first date advice it can be whatever you want just remember to make it fun, See if you can make it a movie date at one of your places. Makes it a lot easier to Kino and make your moves when your not in public, Good luck.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: First Date! Help

    Don't go to a bar or somewhere that you're sat opposite each other. All that will happen is that you'll build comfort, without building kino as it's harder with the pair of you sat opposite each other.

    You will more likely fall in to the FriendZone.

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    Default Re: First Date! Help

    Ok, so here's my input. Bear in mind one thing: you'll have to be abso-fucking-lutely sure of yourself. No fear, just do whatever you want without apologizing and, most of all, say whatever goes in your mind without expecting a reaction.

    Ok so here it goes:

    Choose a coffee lounge. I prefer at the beach, sunset. If the music is too loud, then don't go there, stay outside.
    Sit by her side. It's better, not only to touch her, but to build tension. There's not a table between you. There's nothing between the 2 of you.
    Tease her. Tease her. Tease her. Tease her.
    Don't let her interrupt you. Ignore half of what she says (especially if she's being a little bitchy. It's a congruency test actually. Remain cool and tease her when she's being a little bitchy "oh, so cute, that was the 4th best joke I heard today" - say it with a smile.
    End the date before her... as in, end the date when the high point has been reached.
    Play with her. Tickle her. Wrestle her.

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    Default Re: First Date! Help

    Thank you all. So much. Really helpful. I swear this stuff has worked to get me numbers. I just haven't used it yet on dates. I have, of course, been on many dates, but I want to start employing some of these techniques.

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    Default Re: First Date! Help

    That One Guy,

    thanks, man. I get what you mean about getting a vibe going on text. Seems like getting a number is barely even the beginning. It's like pre-beginning.

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    Default Re: First Date! Help

    Quote Originally Posted by Rez View Post
    That One Guy,

    thanks, man. I get what you mean about getting a vibe going on text. Seems like getting a number is barely even the beginning. It's like pre-beginning.
    Yeah its funny, early on in game you just want numbers but the harder you go you realize its only getting your foot in the door, your game has to be solid all the way through


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