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    Default How To Deal With Girls That Want To Be Chased?

    I find this out last night while im sarging with my buddy. This girl(K-Closed)and I were talking for a week or 2 via text. I set up a day 2, but she had to decline b/c she was busy. To be fair, she did leave it open for me to invite her again. Fair enough... Anyways, days went by and I became busy with my own life. So she really wasn't on my radar. However, I was surprised that she never initiated anything via text during those 2 weeks.

    So two weeks forward, I'm sarging with my buddy and I notice her with her friends. I'm pretty sure she saw me, but she never said anything. Fine by me, b/c my goal for the night was to have fun and practice my game.

    Towards the end of the night, our paths crossed and I decided to start a conversation. It was awkward but I've come to enjoy awkwardness. There was good banter between us. Heck, I think I even got the mother hen to appreciate me. So I lightly Kinoed and she seemed responsive. I didn't escalate b/c I was somewhat sick(she didn't know) and at that moment I wasn't sure what I wanted out of the situation. All in all, I personally think I put myself in a position where she can be an option. Based on how everything went, I think she would be down for a day 2.

    However, her drunk friend told me earlier that night that the girl in question wants me to chase her.

    So in short, How to deal with girls that want to be chased?

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    Default Re: How To Deal With Girls That Want To Be Chased?

    Just persist bro. Start texting her and or calling her, and push for the day 2. When she really starts acting up then I'd have more advice to give, but you haven't even tried initiating anything for awhile. So simply just start initiating some form of contact.

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    Default Re: How To Deal With Girls That Want To Be Chased?

    Ok.
    chase her! Do it..
    But...chase her with style.
    As in, text her(once a day) with funny messages.
    if she answers, then reply quickly.
    Then stop.
    wait a couple of days, and she'll chase you.
    now..
    the second part will be going out.

    Drink a quick espresso with her,be smart, cool,etc.. make fun of yourself. (not as a girflriend would but as a man).
    Then leave after 20 minutes.
    See her, a couple of times a week, or more...

    THEN STOP.
    start inventing excuse the second or third week.

    Obviously, I don't know her and you. So, the timings could be off.
    But you see what I mean.
    So, you start chasing her...but then you have to stop point blank.
    (i had this work on a 10+..who frankly, I don't think really liked me at first...but the vanity/competition in the women is too strong for her to resist)

    Do this for a week...THEN STOP


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