I find this out last night while im sarging with my buddy. This girl(K-Closed)and I were talking for a week or 2 via text. I set up a day 2, but she had to decline b/c she was busy. To be fair, she did leave it open for me to invite her again. Fair enough... Anyways, days went by and I became busy with my own life. So she really wasn't on my radar. However, I was surprised that she never initiated anything via text during those 2 weeks.
So two weeks forward, I'm sarging with my buddy and I notice her with her friends. I'm pretty sure she saw me, but she never said anything. Fine by me, b/c my goal for the night was to have fun and practice my game.
Towards the end of the night, our paths crossed and I decided to start a conversation. It was awkward but I've come to enjoy awkwardness. There was good banter between us. Heck, I think I even got the mother hen to appreciate me. So I lightly Kinoed and she seemed responsive. I didn't escalate b/c I was somewhat sick(she didn't know) and at that moment I wasn't sure what I wanted out of the situation. All in all, I personally think I put myself in a position where she can be an option. Based on how everything went, I think she would be down for a day 2.
However, her drunk friend told me earlier that night that the girl in question wants me to chase her.
So in short, How to deal with girls that want to be chased?