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Thread: Neg killed the Game

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    Wink Neg killed the Game

    Very interesting incident which helped me learn a lot about my routine.
    I met this chic in a pub and started chatting with her. She was a lawyer and was with her sister so my friend started winging for me. I was trying to keep my conversation lively by trying to play some games with her. I asked her to guess my friend's native country , she said she didn't know , i said i give you 3 options , if you get it right i buy u a drink otherwise u buy me one ( i thought working women would like to be treated equal). But she said no she doesn't want to guess , i said cmmon be a sport (Neg) . And she turned and started talking to other girls. My friend later told me she told her sister I was rude and trying to play some stupid game.

    Lessons learnt:
    1. May be the game thing is more for younger girls and not so for working women.
    2. I should have sensed it immediately that she is not interested and not force her.
    3. May be i over-negged her.
    What do you guys think.

    The best part is earlier a rejection like this would have bothered me but now I am really enjoying this, I take every rejection as a new learning point.It makes things lose the seriousness and more fun.

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    Default Re: Neg killed the Game

    Don't be too hard on yourself. Some girls don't like playing games no matter the age. It could have been due to a number of reasons so there's no real reason to x it out of your game yet. You can never be to old for a game. Play what you feel like playing not giving a fuck about what others think.

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    Default Re: Neg killed the Game

    Thats true.. to tell u frankly thats also a good sign for me to know what girl I want to talk to..if a girl is too touchy and can't take little bit of humor or adventure or the risk of buying a guy a drink :P ..she is definitely not for me..

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    Default Re: Neg killed the Game

    I don't even think it was a neg. For me sounded a bit more pitiful, like you begging her to play with you. If I would use a neg here would be something like "you must be fun at parties" or something on those lines. You have to make her look dull and not you look silly.

    I got something similar. I went with a girl on a date which I already knew she was bit dull but didn't know how much. As I was talking with her about childhood games I asked her if she knew the thumb fight name. She said yes. So I said, let's see how good you are. She told me: "I'm holding a beer". From that I realized that girl is not for me and didn't even make any effort anymore to impress her or anything. I just went a bit more with the date and then we finished it soon. I didn't even bother writing her back

    You shouldn't care about this type of girls. I mean if they are that dull, and I don't like that, move on.

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    Default Re: Neg killed the Game

    Quote Originally Posted by popye007 View Post
    I was trying to keep my conversation lively by trying to play some games with her. I asked her to guess my friend's native country , she said she didn't know , i said i give you 3 options , if you get it right i buy u a drink otherwise u buy me one ( i thought working women would like to be treated equal). But she said no she doesn't want to guess , i said cmmon be a sport (Neg) . And she turned and started talking to other girls. My friend later told me she told her sister I was rude and trying to play some stupid game.

    Lessons learnt:
    1. May be the game thing is more for younger girls and not so for working women.
    2. I should have sensed it immediately that she is not interested and not force her.
    3. May be i over-negged her.
    You did well. That wasn't really a neg, IMO. I would have said, "Well, you're no fun," and started engaging others while keeping her in the conversation.

    However, before you even go into games like that, especially with women of her "status" or whatever you wanna call it, you want to know what they're like. A simple conversation - small talk - is all it takes to get an idea of what will and won't work. Even then, you're not guaranteed anything, btw. Your chances just skyrocket

    With that said, don't blame yourself for it. That'll just discourage you. Rejection happens, mistakes happen, man up and move on! (Which you clearly did)
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    Default Re: Neg killed the Game

    Quote Originally Posted by popye007 View Post
    Thats true.. to tell u frankly thats also a good sign for me to know what girl I want to talk to..if a girl is too touchy and can't take little bit of humor or adventure or the risk of buying a guy a drink :P ..she is definitely not for me..
    Thatta boy, that's how you gotta spin things! If they can't handle you for who you are then they're not for you. It's as simple as that. Don't change for anyone.

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    Default Re: Neg killed the Game

    Frankly, I didn't find the neg to be a neg at all. At no point did I ever find it playful, nor able to pull. If anything, I would agree with Depp. It was nothing more than a desperate show to try to get her to play along.

    I definitely agree though that if a woman is being unresponsive, she isn't worth your time. If you also see a girl that is outside of your interests, she should be a no go. It helps to know EXACTLY what kind of woman you are looking for before you interact with her. It also helps for the long term interaction scenario.

    My biggest advice to you is to re-check on your definition of a Neg. Go to the Neg threads, find a book or two, and do some research. Learn from the mistakes of others, and take example after the successes of the best.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X


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