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    Default EXTREMELY off my game lately - what do you do to get back into it?

    For the past month or so, I feel like my skills, for lack of a better word, are just bleh. My text game is practically non existent seeing as how most of my texts come off as nonchalant and condescending, but I think that's because I haven't been doing much of it anyway. I think I need to step out of my comfort zone (again) because it feels like I fell right back in.

    As for dates, I feel like I have nothing to talk about with the women I'm with. It's usually because I feel no connection (I think with two heads; both have to be happy) and don't want to get to know the chick - leads to me lying through my teeth about wanting to get to know her. Other times, I just don't know what to say, so it leads to those "umms" and sh!t. No bueno.

    For example - last two dates I was on - easy k-closes. One of them was an easy f-close. What did I do? Walked away as she was asking me come upstairs...yeah, I'm that off.

    So, what do you guys do when you feel like you're extremely off your game? Back to the basics? If so, what exactly? Something else? If so, what?
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    Default Re: EXTREMELY off my game lately - what do you do to get back into it?

    It doesn't sound like your game is off by any means. It sounds like either you just haven't found the right woman to spark that interest, or your priorities lie in a different place. Maybe you're just not interested in pickup right now, but you're telling yourself that you are. Really take the time to evaluate your life and determine where your priorities lie. Once you do that, you can then decide if it's because you haven't found the right woman to get you going. If it's neither of those, come back here and we'll dissect further into this.

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    Default Re: EXTREMELY off my game lately - what do you do to get back into it?

    Quote Originally Posted by lilsting View Post
    It sounds like either you just haven't found the right woman to spark that interest
    That's what I thought it was at first - but come on, no woman sparking my interest? My standards are high compared to a lot of guys I know, but I'm not even into women I've already hooked up with (I didn't have sex with all of them, either). Sure, they may have raised since then, but again - not feeling anything emotional for them? It's weird and it's throwing me off.
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    Default Re: EXTREMELY off my game lately - what do you do to get back into it?

    Is it possible that at this point in time that you're really just not interested in women? I don't mean in a homo way of course, but are you possibly invested in something else? Maybe something you want to pursue or something you've been wanting to do. It's also possible you're just bored right now with gaming. You could be looking for something more, and have just fallen into a routine. A routine that works and does provide any interest for you because it's so easy.

    I'm just tossing out ideas to see if any of these relate to you.

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    Default Re: EXTREMELY off my game lately - what do you do to get back into it?

    You definitely hit the nail on the head when you said I was looking for something more, but I'm not doing that actively. Could be that it's a subconscious thing. So, with that said, what would you recommend?
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