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    Default Transitioning from my first girl without sex

    Heyy, so Im just polishing off my third beer but its going to focus my mind on what I want to talk about. So I had been dating two girls right now. Field report on the first one. Long story short I tried to fark and failed but I learned valuable lessons. Now is the first time in my pickup game where I know I have to let a girl go. You know when you have that awesome connection and she loves being around you? Yeah I miss that feeling and I want it again but I feel like I just hit that new plateau with this experience.

    Its so cool having pushed a girl for sex and her saying no. As much as it sucks not getting laid I think I will learn more from failure than success. Now this next girl Im seeing again soon and shes even hotter . But I almost want to take it super slow and be not needy to get that lay ultimately. But whats your take on it guys? Should I keep pushing my mindset towards getting faster lays? Or should I just do WHATEVER it takes to fark this one? Opinions on what helps or hurts your game would be nice. I just wanna get it in. But I want to play some solid game too.

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    Default Re: Transitioning from my first girl without sex

    Push the envelope as much as possible until you get resistance. Once you hit resistance, you back off, work it a little, then push again as far as you can go. I say just try to go as quickly as you can. Once you hit resistance, then just simply back off a little, give it some time, and try again.

    If you think about it this way, what if she wants you to go quick and make moves? If you take it slow and don't escalate, you look bad. If you do and end up getting some resistance, then you at least don't look like a Beta and you're showing you have the confidence to make a move. It's a win-win really

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    Default Re: Transitioning from my first girl without sex

    Thats all I needed to hear man, Ill try it out. Im seeing her thursday morning for a a breakfast date, kind interesting. I'll see how far I can go!

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    Default Re: Transitioning from my first girl without sex

    Me: Lets go out tonight work ends for me at Five 2:42 AM
    Me: Hey! I need to ask you something that has kept me sleepless and I want you to be totally honest with me. It might be awkward between us after this but I have to know how you feel. I have kept this in my mind for a while now but I think it's finally time I'll be straight up and just confront you.... I hope this doesn't ruin the relationship we already have. I just need to know and I don't see any other way I could get over this. It wouldn't be fair on me if I don't get an answer. I want you to tell me truthfully, no matter how harsh it is. I just want your honest opinion... Do you like coke or lemonade? 11:44 AM
    +: -.- 11:47 AM
    Me: ahaha, I didn't scare you off did I? 11:49 AM
    +: I didn't get all of it but I already know it's a gay pepsi or coke thing. 11:50 AM
    Me: It got your attention so it did its job, I never thought Id see you so bitter. 11:51 AM
    +: I'm not bitter- .- 1:26 PM
    Me: I had to try something, ive been so lonely, im all out of love, im so lost without you 1:36 PM
    : Oh shut that up 1:37 PM
    Me: I cant shut my feelings out, they're all I have these days 1:38 PM
    +: Haha I see. Lol 1:44 PM
    Me: fark, so were hanging out on thursday Plan to have some amazing conversation and smooth jazz 1:54 PM
    +: Haha always your way!? 1:55 PM
    Me: Your not planning anything are you? Yeeeah didnt think so haha 1:56 PM
    +: I'll let you know 2:00 PM
    Me: Otters hold hands when sleeping so they don’t drift away from each other. 2:02 PM
    +: Aww that's cute 2:07 PM
    Me: Male puppies, when playing with female puppies, will intentionally let the female win. 2:09 PM
    Me: 20. The clitoris has 8000 nerve fibres, double that of the penis, and is the only organ in the body, which has evolved purely for pleasure. 2:12 PM

    +: Hahahhahahah 2:29 PM
    Me: I'll be waiting for whatever you plan out. Otherwise its smooth jazz and fantastic vebal exchange on Thursday 2:51 PM

    AHAHAH enjoy this coversation in whih I revived a girl I thought I lost, lets see if it pulls through

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    Default Re: Transitioning from my first girl without sex

    My critique is to keep your texts shorter, it'll make her have to text more. And send less cuz you're setting the frame that you're chasing her. After she said I'll let you know, I would have cut the convo off there and then text her something on thursday like "what are you up to... besides building my shrine?" then confirm the date because the rest just looks like you're trying to get attention.

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    Default Re: Transitioning from my first girl without sex

    Quote Originally Posted by scguitar View Post
    My critique is to keep your texts shorter, it'll make her have to text more. And send less cuz you're setting the frame that you're chasing her. After she said I'll let you know, I would have cut the convo off there and then text her something on thursday like "what are you up to... besides building my shrine?" then confirm the date because the rest just looks like you're trying to get attention.
    Do you ever have fun texting a girl in an AFC way? Like I thought it was working to send her things she knows I wouldn't say. This guy Jeffy rsd he calls them up crying and singing and at the end hes like but seriously catch me back.


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