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Thread: Texting gone wrong? Help

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    Default Texting gone wrong? Help

    Hey Guys,
    Need some help, Iíll try to make this short. Excuse the grammatical errors but Iím short for time as Iím at work.
    I Met a this girl at the bar and got her number. We got together for a coffee the first week and totally hit if off. Arranged a date with her through texting the following week and we went for dinner and drinks, we had amazing chemistry and we were both into each other, ended making out with her in the car before dropping her off at home.
    Throughout this two week process weíve been texting back and forth and I was thinking its about time to call her up rather then text. Iíve been trying to gain a stronger attraction from her through texting by trying to be cocky funny, which for the most part sheís gone along with it to the best of her ability as she doesnít always have the best responses due to the language barrier.
    Anyhow to the point, she got upset with the fact that I was taking way too long to respond between texts,
    Below is a exact recap of the last conversation,

    Me: miss me yet?
    Her: just a bitJ
    Me: Same here, but not as much as I miss the hot sauce you tricked me into eating sat night? (Inside)
    Her: Iím frustrated! I thought you miss me a lot! LolJ
    Me: Nope, I did miss you but now I think I can handle not seeing you a bit longerÖ)
    Her: Oh really?! Donít call me and text ever again! J
    Me: maybe just a bit, but thatís only because we didnít kiss long enough. Ill let you make it up to me the next time..
    Her: :0 you are horrible! I thought you like my personality!
    Me: I hope you know Iím just teasing youÖ I like who you are, thatís why Iíve had such a good time with you!
    Her: I knowJ but now Iím not teasing you! If you always answer me so long I wonít communicate with you at all! I hate it!
    Me: I promise I wonít take long to msg you. I had a volley ball game this evening and I just got home now.
    Her: Ok. For now!
    HerJ
    Me. Iím going rock climbing next week, I want you to come.
    Her: I would like to but Iím busy with exams right now. Some weekendÖWill see
    I know I made some strategic texting errors but whatís done is done. I need advise on how to proceed from here. I realize now she isnít the typical girl that enjoys the chase or games, rather the traditional type that appreciate a guy bringing flowers on the first date. I think itís a European cultural thing.
    Anyhow any input would be greatly appreciated.
    Thanks,

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    Default Re: Texting gone wrong? Help

    "Me: I hope you know I’m just teasing you… I like who you are, that’s why I’ve had such a good time with you!"

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    Me: I promise I won’t take long to msg you. I had a volley ball game this evening and I just got home now."

    Apologizing and you fell of to her frame. She tested you and you failed.

    Simply avoid doing this again and keep teasing and flirting. You'll do fine.


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    Default Re: Texting gone wrong? Help

    Hey there,

    thanks for the input. I knew when I sent her that message it was the wrong thing to say. I normally don’t give in so easy but she doesn’t seem to like the flirting games. Is there ever an exception to the rule when apologizing, or are all girls the same at the end of the day? Going forward, do you recommend I make immediate contact or take a few days, and is it best to just call her rather then text as texting can sometimes be misinterpreted, which may be the case due to the language barrier?


    Anyhow, thanks again for the insight.

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    Default Re: Texting gone wrong? Help

    It's not about them. It must be about you.
    You're teasing a girl on a harmless subject and she acts offended, or doesn't think its funny. Should you apologize? Obviously not, because deep down you know you did nothing wrong.

    Apologize only when you aknowledge you did something bad, for example, making a joke of her dead dog.

    Text her tomorrow or after tomorrow with something random. Be flirty, it's supposed to be fun! You should amuse yourself when flirting, not trying to amuse others

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    Default Re: Texting gone wrong? Help

    I completely agree with you, I guess i needed to hear it from a different perspective.

    Thanks for your words for wisdom!

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    Default Re: Texting gone wrong? Help

    She texts like my asian gf in high school, annoying. I think you were just doing too much pushing through texts that didnt need it. Not every text has to tease her.


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