Need some help, Iíll try to make this short. Excuse the grammatical errors but Iím short for time as Iím at work.
I Met a this girl at the bar and got her number. We got together for a coffee the first week and totally hit if off. Arranged a date with her through texting the following week and we went for dinner and drinks, we had amazing chemistry and we were both into each other, ended making out with her in the car before dropping her off at home.
Throughout this two week process weíve been texting back and forth and I was thinking its about time to call her up rather then text. Iíve been trying to gain a stronger attraction from her through texting by trying to be cocky funny, which for the most part sheís gone along with it to the best of her ability as she doesnít always have the best responses due to the language barrier.
Anyhow to the point, she got upset with the fact that I was taking way too long to respond between texts,
Below is a exact recap of the last conversation,
Me: miss me yet?
Her: just a bitJ
Me: Same here, but not as much as I miss the hot sauce you tricked me into eating sat night? (Inside)
Her: Iím frustrated! I thought you miss me a lot! LolJ
Me: Nope, I did miss you but now I think I can handle not seeing you a bit longerÖ)
Her: Oh really?! Donít call me and text ever again! J
Me: maybe just a bit, but thatís only because we didnít kiss long enough. Ill let you make it up to me the next time..
Her: :0 you are horrible! I thought you like my personality!
Me: I hope you know Iím just teasing youÖ I like who you are, thatís why Iíve had such a good time with you!
Her: I knowJ but now Iím not teasing you! If you always answer me so long I wonít communicate with you at all! I hate it!
Me: I promise I wonít take long to msg you. I had a volley ball game this evening and I just got home now.
Her: Ok. For now!
Me. Iím going rock climbing next week, I want you to come.
Her: I would like to but Iím busy with exams right now. Some weekendÖWill see
I know I made some strategic texting errors but whatís done is done. I need advise on how to proceed from here. I realize now she isnít the typical girl that enjoys the chase or games, rather the traditional type that appreciate a guy bringing flowers on the first date. I think itís a European cultural thing.
Anyhow any input would be greatly appreciated.