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    writhe666 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Thumbs up Ex or the new girl? should they see each other??

    There's an artwalk coming up this thursday that my ex usually goes with with her friends, but i just met this hot babe (HB9) and I invited her to go with me. The thing is now, i don't know whether to take her or not.

    I'm sure my ex will see her but honestly i don't want my ex's friends s**t talking or her feeling like s**t. It's obvious I still like and care for the girl.

    I'll give you a little breakdown of the breakup so you guys can help me asses the situation....


    I broke up with her through text after i saw she went out to LA close to midnight and didn't tag her friends. She was also being very distant and cold because of issues at home. I feel i came off as needy at that time too and that caused more distance.

    I deleted her from Facebook and We didn't talk for a week after the break up but i caved and went to her house and pulled the most AFC move ever....I cried to her.

    We end up "being cool and made plans to hang out in the next two days. The day comes and text her "hey lady lumps ready for today? " she replies with something along the lines of " hey writhe, I don't think I'm not going to be able to hang out after all, sorry".


    I've got a good feeling she misses me, she was a virgin and just being straight forward, i still want to f**k her...maybe make it a FWB with a potential for a relationship again.

    I thought about calling her and and inviting her to art walk instead, just as "friends" but the last communication was that text and that was two weeks ago.

    I more than likely will see her at the artwalk and that could be my chance to talk to her and try to set up another date, but i also get a shot at an HB9.

    What would you guys do in my situation?
    I'll take any opinions or advice.

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    writhe666 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Ex or the new girl? should they see each other??

    should i just enjoy a date with the hb9 at a different venue?

    and would it be a good idea to try to communicate the ex and try to set up a date, or maybe just run into her at the artwalk?

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    Default Re: Ex or the new girl? should they see each other??

    Make a list of places you'd want to go. Alone or with someone.
    Pick one and go there with her. Simple, no plan, no preparation, do whatever the fuck you want without feeling the need of please her

    Best of luck mate!

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    Default Re: Ex or the new girl? should they see each other??

    thanks! but I thought about taking friends too, another girl with the same style as my ex(HB7) and a good homie of mine. Demonstrate some dhv and if indirect contact happens ill just give a smile and a wave.

    thing is i just really want her back to nail her, so I guess what I'm trying to do convert her from an ex to a FB...

    good/bad idea?

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    Default Re: Ex or the new girl? should they see each other??

    Good idea if you make your intentions clear before you fuck her, and only in that situation.

    As over the subject of bringing friends with you, well, it will look like a couples meeting. If she doesn't know your friends, don't bring them.

    Also, if it's the first date, why should you bring friends? It's supposed to make her feel comfortable with you.

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    Default Re: Ex or the new girl? should they see each other??

    What do you mean by making my intentions clear?

    also she knows my bro that's coming with me, but as far as the girls she wont have a clue who they are.

    It might count it as the second,
    HB drove pretty far to come visit me at work (tattoo shop) I finished the job i was working on, stopped by my house to get jackets and smoked at a view that was also somewhat far away .....Although i didn't kiss close, I threw heavy confident flirting at her and retracted like It didn't even happen (is there a technical term for that?)

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    Default Re: Ex or the new girl? should they see each other??

    I mean be honest with her when the time comes.


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