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    Default Approaching at the GYM

    Hi Guys,

    I'm really stumped with this one. There are at least 4 hotties at the gym in there early 20's. One of which I can tell is serious about her workouts and the others seem like they are just getting into it.

    They usually have there headphone on and are lifting weights or on the treadmill.

    I could use a good opener for starters. They second issue I'm having is I feel like I have a time constraint because they are working out. How do I build comfort in such a short period of time?

    If I had to do this without expert advice this is what I would do;

    Opener: Hey, your done for the day. You're body is beautiful

    - Throw in a false time constraint.

    - This is the part where I'm lost and need expert advise

    - Close by getting email and number or asking her to head down the street to the health place for a shot of wheat grass or something.

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    Default Re: Approaching at the GYM

    Do not do that opener.

    You could use a David Wygant approach. If she's listening to music, simply ask what kind of music she's listening to and comment on how into her workout she is.

    Or you could just go direct and obvious, like "Not to be the guy that awkwardly hits on you at the gym... but yeah, I'm that guy right now."

    Or you could go indirect and then direct by revealing your intentions. Maybe get the on the treadmill next to them. Match their speed, ask like what they're training for, then be like "Yeah i'm just training for life" and go into a full sprint, lol. Then go be direct.

    Or if she's got some dumbells, grab some and do curls next to her and be like "Yo, you seeing this? You believing this right now? Ripley's believe it or not!" then again, switch to direct and reveal your intentions.

    Make sure you do something congruent to your personality. Those last two are just what I would do. You might find them lame but I find them funny.

    The false time constraint is easy since you're both in the middle of something.

    Just get the number and bounce from the gym after that.

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    Default Re: Approaching at the GYM

    I'm liking what I'm reading. This one matches my personality as I'm a ballsy direct kinda guy.

    Or you could just go direct and obvious, like "Not to be the guy that awkwardly hits on you at the gym... but yeah, I'm that guy right now."

    So after my opener and false time constraint what comes next? Seems too quick to go for the number???

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    Default Re: Approaching at the GYM

    Quote Originally Posted by Trickster69 View Post
    I'm liking what I'm reading. This one matches my personality as I'm a ballsy direct kinda guy.

    Or you could just go direct and obvious, like "Not to be the guy that awkwardly hits on you at the gym... but yeah, I'm that guy right now."

    So after my opener and false time constraint what comes next? Seems too quick to go for the number???
    Well, I'll try to give an example, but honestly, your best bet is to bomb a couple times and learn from your mistakes.

    Anyway, I just approached a girl today in daygame who said she was going to the gym. So I said something like "Oh, you're going to get big huh. I bet you're one of those girls that shoots up." That means steroids if you didn't know, so you could make a joke like that (If you're wondering, I did get her number).

    Talk about maybe what kind of workout she's doin or what music she listens to to get pumped. Then use an "us" mentality. So for example, you could say you're going to be her personal trainer and train together, compete in competitions together, and joke about that or something.

    Just go with your gut feeling. It doesn't have to all be about workouts, it's just what comes to my mind since you're in a gym


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