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    Default botched attempt?/whats going on? need expert opinion pls!

    ok so before i begin heres a short backstory: there was this girl in my class that showed IOIs but i botched it the 1st time round with a horrible reply so i pretty much gave up and couldnt be bothered. recently she showed a little IOI again and sent me an email with something like ''hey im the girl who sent u notes(she offered the 1st day of class out of nowhere even tho we were complete strangers) requesting for notes saying she missed class blah blah blah(she was actually present) so i replied something like ''hey lifesaver! sure thing, i really should thank you with coffee for those notes. save me a seat next class?'' but never got a reply. i know i should probably move on but for some reason shes kinda stuck in the back of my head lol

    can any expert please tell me whats going on here and how do i deal with this situation? im totally confused and lost right now your advice is very much appreciated!

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    Default Re: botched attempt?/whats going on? need expert opinion pls!

    Its probably that your intent wasn't clear, You had her number so you could be a good classmate. She had no idea you wanted a date so what was way too forward when you didnt make her invest in any conversation or anything.

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    Default Re: botched attempt?/whats going on? need expert opinion pls!

    is there any way to fix this or should i not bother and move on? and also i havent gotten a number it was pure email and just a coffee suggestion would that be considered too forward? sorry n00b here just trying to recognize my mistakes n correct them

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    Default Re: botched attempt?/whats going on? need expert opinion pls!

    Ehhh I think its just one girl. Talk to her in class man. Sit next to her and get to know her, flirt, tease and vibe. Of course you can fix it but don't think it was a mistake. Just move it further. If it doesn't work out then so be it. Just find out in person first.

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    Default Re: botched attempt?/whats going on? need expert opinion pls!

    so i assume its unlikely that she's playing/testing me or something right?

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    Default Re: botched attempt?/whats going on? need expert opinion pls!

    oh and also, should i send an email to smoothen things out/lighten the mood before working her next class? i was thinking something like 'how were the notes? ur welcome btw lol!' i've been practicing on other girls im not really interested in and been making good progress but the ones i like seem to befuddle me

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    Default Re: botched attempt?/whats going on? need expert opinion pls!

    no man don't send her a email like that .. it shows you are looking for validity from her. Don't send her a email at all. As others said begin the frame again and start flirting with her in class. don't get too invested with her and know there is much more out there.

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    Default Re: botched attempt?/whats going on? need expert opinion pls!

    got it, thanks! so when i work it again in class (teasing etc) i should make no mention of this (like i shouldnt joke 'btw uhh ur welcome?!) ?

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    Default Re: botched attempt?/whats going on? need expert opinion pls!

    One word....abundance. Go after a lot of girls. Other than that the advice on here is solid.
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    Default Re: botched attempt?/whats going on? need expert opinion pls!

    haha ive been practicing on a few just to try and improve but they dont seem 'get me going', so to speak. this is some frustrating sh1t


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