Okay, I will try and make a logn story short. Several months ago, a woman I had liked began flirting with me. I was in a relationship (Long distance) at the time. I did not hide that either. We hung out a few times (with other people). Eventually she came over and I kissed her. This started escalating, but she told me outright, she didnt want to go further because of my relationship. We hung out once more and kissed and flirted.
I left town, to see my girlfriend and (this pissed off new girl). I told new girl that our relationship was on the rocks and that I never lied to her about anything or tried to hide anything. (Which is true).
When I got back, from my trip, she went cold on me. I tried to find out what was up, but saw it was not helping. I went no contact. 3 weeks latter she started talking to me out of the blue. We hung out, and I played it really cool. Didn't try anything, just tried to have a nice time and be a little flirty. About a week later she must have got pissed and went cold about something I said about my ex. Or she doesnt believe that we really had broken up.
We barerly spoke for another few weeks. And this time I broke the ice. I started being jerky and cocky towards her when I ran into her. She would tell me how busy she is and such. We saw each other briefly two weeks ago. It was the day before I was leaving town. I didn't tell her what I was doing.
I have exchanged texs with her once since I got back. She responded to my texts, but is acting very aloof. I don't want to come off needy, so I am starting to give space again. I really want to try and salvage this, and get a second chance. She is fun to be with and really pretty.
Is there anyway I got get the level of attraction back I had a few months ago? Is their anything I can do that is bold, and not needy she might like?
Thanks for any help in adavnced. Sorry if their is typoes, did this on my phone at lunch.