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    Exclamation What to do with girl who may or may not have friendzoned me?

    I've got two threads based on this situation, but they basically focus on texting so this is a little different. If you know the story skip ahead to the last paragraph, if you don't here's a short break down.

    There's this girl that I met back in the beginning of February, we dated for about 3 weeks, and the last time we went out I told her that I liked her a lot and that I really
    wanted to see this go somewhere (I know bad move), and at the end of the night she kissed me, and I by that I mean she went in for the kiss. What doesn't make much sense is that after that I heard from one of her friends that she only saw me as a friend, and I guess it must be true because after that night her text responses got slower and sometimes she wouldn't reply back at all and we haven't hung
    out since that night (2/23/13). I invited her out to a concert the following week and she blew me off.

    We haven't hungout together since then, and for brief two weeks I stopped contact with her. After those two weeks, I initiated text with her again, using the texting critique found on this forum, I'm sure I still need improvement but she was playing right along with my texts keeping it fun and kinda flirty. However both times I proposed a meet up she would just flatline and wouldn't respond.

    Anyway I haven't tried talking to her for about two weeks now. But my sister-in-law asked her if she wanted to hangout with us this Friday (which is tomorrow), and she said yeah. Now I know this means nothing really, but I'm just trying to figure out how I should play this out tomorrow? What should and shouldn't I do?

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    Default Re: What to do with girl who may or may not have friendzoned me?

    Be neutral when you hang out. Let her come to you

    Be social, confident, and independent. Talk to other girls, not obvious Flirting, but be social

    If you hang on her you'll get no where. If you're fun and playful and disqualify her, you can make her work towards you and start pursuing you again
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval

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