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    Red face The LOVE question

    HI
    my girl told me she loved me while we were making out yesterday
    I don't feel the same yet so I just hugged her and said "oh baby"
    well today she asked me why don't I tell her I love her, I answered that I will say it when I feel it and she said nervously "okay okay, you shouldn't tell me something you don't really feel"
    well how should I handle this , any advice?

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    Default Re: The LOVE question

    You already handled it. Now shut up and don't mention it again. If she's a teenage girl don't sweat it, that doesn't mean crap anyway.

    If she asks again simply ask her, "Do you want me to say it when I really mean it, or say it just to appease you?"
    She'll let you off the hook.

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    Default Re: The LOVE question

    Hi
    my girl started hinting me so she can't get rejected
    by saying I love her or by other more subtle ways.

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    Default Re: The LOVE question

    If you ever seen Star Wars episode 5, Leia says "I love you" to Han Solo. Watch what he says back to her

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    Default Re: The LOVE question

    Quote Originally Posted by scguitar View Post
    If you ever seen Star Wars episode 5, Leia says "I love you" to Han Solo. Watch what he says back to her
    FARK YEA STAR WARS AND PICKUP!!!

    Anyways, I would say to avoid repeating those three words back to her like the plague. You say it once, and they'll expect you to say it all the time, as was the case with my ex. Don't build yourself a house that you're not going to live in.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: The LOVE question

    The L word... the feeling everyone feels after 1 week of cuddling, kissing, hugging and some banging... so sweet and the "it's a trap!" alarm should always ring when she says for the first time "I love you". You handled it quite well, now tell her "It's too soon for me to say that I love you. I have Asperger, so it's kinda hard to feel love, but my heart feels a little weird when I'm with you girl "...

    Nooo, I'm just kidding mate. Do what Suave Kino says. He knows it, and the most important thing is being honest with yourself.

    May the force be with you!

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    an update

    my girl tried to make me say "I love You", in a different language.
    I stopped and told her " don't you want it to be real when i say it"
    she said that sometimes you should lie, that caught me by surprise .
    I'm sure she's going to try and make me say it again, any other advice on how to prevent it until I'm ready for it.

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    Default Re: The LOVE question

    My gf asked me too lie to her, I tried telling her it won't be true if she makes me say it.
    we've been dating for about 3 months now.
    should I give her what she wants?

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    Default Re: The LOVE question

    Don't come from the frame that if you don't say it you'll lose her. You won't. Just frame it that you want to make sure you're ready and it would be easier if she didn't add pressure on you. It's not about which of you is right. It's about who has a stronger frame. Don't fall for her frame that you HAVE to say it. You set the rules.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: The LOVE question

    an update
    It was quiet for a while.
    well today she acted as if she didn't tell me she loved me tryin to make me say it
    she said "I'm not sure I love you" and now she's acting a bit cold

    Looking for your wisdom..


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