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    kontenyuri is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Sent a bad text, no respond. Don't know what to do.

    Basically I've been trying to arrange a date with this girl and I sent this bad text she hasn't responded now I don't know what to do.

    Her : You alright hun? Sorry missed your call I was actually asleep! Haha

    Me : At this time? Lazzzy girl! I was calling to see if you wanna go for our amazing date tomorrow night?

    Her : I went swimming and gym and was worn out I think I might actually be free tomorrow night! I have work until like half 7 though

    Me : Had a whole free nandos chicken say something! haha That's perfect I'll meet you at 9:01 make sure you where best dress and don't be late!

    Is there anyway to rectify this?

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    Default Re: Sent a bad text, no respond. Don't know what to do.

    Did you just send this? Or is it today that you should have the date? If you should be having the date today in about an hour or so. Call her. If not you will still have to call her. Preferably after she gets off work. But if that 'date' passes then you'll have to wait for her text you.

    Or you can cancel/reschedule because something 'came up' and if she says ok or anything don't text back until the next day.

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    Default Re: Sent a bad text, no respond. Don't know what to do.

    Don"t say anything else. But maybe call if the date is tonight, otherwise you just sound desperate (who knows maybe she is looking for her best dress)

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    kontenyuri is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Sent a bad text, no respond. Don't know what to do.

    I sent the last text 6 hours ago and no response. Try to arrange a meet tomorrow. I was thinking of calling her and told my good friend he said it was the worst thing I could do. His gf said she isn't coming. I was thinking of waiting till afternoon tomorrow then text her. But I don't know now. Any ideas? All help is much appreciated.

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    Default Re: Sent a bad text, no respond. Don't know what to do.

    don"t worry about it she might just be busy , don't text her anything ,since that will make you sound desperate . That just might be one of those Sh1t tests that girls like to play and see your response.
    just call her once tomorrow around like 6 pm and if she doesn't answer don't even bother!
    If she doesn't take a time to answer you with a simple text or even make up an excuse then she is not ready to invest. if that situation happens maybe shoot her a text in one week not a day sooner with a spontaneous invitation to drink with your friends or something.

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    kontenyuri is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Sent a bad text, no respond. Don't know what to do.

    Thanks for your help Kiesa and LearningRicky, much appreciated.
    If I call her around 6 she may not answer due to her being at work.
    Do you think I should call her after she finishes?
    Just for clarification, was that text I sent that bad? Because my mate was going on like it was the worst text ever. Sorry for asking so much I am very new to all this.
    Many thanks!

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    Default Re: Sent a bad text, no respond. Don't know what to do.

    Kontenyuri, yeah call her around 7:43. That will give her enough time to go through the transition phase of going from work to social. She'll have enough time to get ready and relax, which is when you'll want to talk to her. But anything before that and she might feel a bit rushed. Your text wasn't that bad, but to me, it seemed a little pushy. Unless you have a bossy character and your body language is very alpha, you need to be careful with how you talk to her. Can you say what you texted her to her face without hesitation or putting it on? Or can you only say that through texts? You don't want to give her one impression, then in person, be somebody totally different.

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    kontenyuri is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Sent a bad text, no respond. Don't know what to do.

    Thanks for the feedback Kiesa much appreciated.
    She's the kinda girl that I thought could give as good as she gets.
    It depends really on my mood, I can be alpha depending on the girl.
    In her case yes I would be able to say that face to face because I knew I would get it back. She once said that "Lol nice to see I bring out the cockiness in you " if that makes any difference?

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    Default Re: Sent a bad text, no respond. Don't know what to do.

    Kontenyuri did she ever ended up replying ?

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    Default Re: Sent a bad text, no respond. Don't know what to do.

    Hey Kiesa, nope no reply or anything. Figured she wasn't interested so I left it.


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