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Thread: Clubs & Dates

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    Default Clubs & Dates

    I have a specific question here. I have a few girls over the past few months I've met during the day, did like A1-3, some C1, and number-closed.

    Then we have good text volleys. But she won't agree to my date ideas, however, she'll text me at like 11 pm from some club somewhere. On any given night. With no pre-arranged plan.

    So I play it cool and meet her there. But I'm pissed off that she's basically running the show, calling me whenever, and when I make it there, she's surrounded by ten girlfriends and six guys. And I can't game her much at all.

    I want to be cool and meet her and make it happen but how. Also, is this a good way to sarge her? Or any thoughts how I can get the ball back in my court?

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    Default Re: Clubs & Dates

    Hey Rez,

    I'm going through the exact same situation. My girl basically calls me when shes drunk. It kind of feels like she just likes having me there in case she doesn't pick up at the end of the night. And when we do meet all we ever does is make out.
    My opinion of your situation is that she's a bit immature, and may not be looking for something serious but loves the attention.

    I may be wrong but it kind of sounds similar to my experience.

    S

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    Default Re: Clubs & Dates

    If she can get you to do things on her terms then she has no incentive to do things on your terms.

    Stop being available when she texts. If she texts you from a club just tell her that you are busy and that you'll get back to her in a day or two.

    Getting you out to a club when she was with 10 people was a sh1t test.

    If she doesn't want to meet you on your terms then do a freeze out.


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