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    Default need help with hb10 in my school

    heyoo, so this girl in my school, i cant get her off my mind. as you hear i really wanna game this girl. so i dont really know her, she goes to my school but we almost never see each other or well i dont really know if she noticed me in real life. anyways i couldnt really find out anything abit unattractive about her. but i decided to chat her up on facebook for about 2-3 months ago, i got response with abit of laughter and i tried to neg abit and told her she had big hands, but i never think she found any intrest in me so i decided to chat her up again this time she didnt use any smileys and i dint wanna seem flirty but still the cocky funny type as i am in person that actually works. i opened with this.
    me- wow, you really change facebook picture alot!
    her- haha, so? suuure we will do it your way and keep this
    me- haha thanks! now i get it you get 100 likes and it can last for a while!
    her- no its nothing like that, i dont even care about likes girls like that are pathetic, i post a picture if i think it looks good.
    me- wow, so you really dont get that im just farking with you?
    her- no i dont know you so i thought u had serious mode on
    me- lol i thought it was kinda obvious. but your hands are still big haha
    her- where do u wanna go?
    me- nowhere, im good right here! always this bitchy?
    her- bitchy? no, i just hate getting negative comments from people i dont even know. if you dont like i change picture delete me as friend, if u think i have big hands dont look at my pictures
    me- wow relax, i never said big hands is negative, damn you are mad!
    her- not mad, just tired of this
    me- getting alot of negatives ?
    her- no but annoying guys that dont even know me
    me- i promise, you would love to hang out with me!

    i feel this is like big steps back i really farked up. now i really need pointers,
    how to recover from this?
    what to do now?
    why it happend?
    how to prevent it
    how to open her again

    i also got to know she is actually not the coolest kid. she got contact with boys that she doesnt dare to meet them in real life and she doesnt party alot but when she do she stands wit hher drink and a cigarett and taking loads on pictures to post online. funny huh? but i wanna get to know her by myself and judge her from that though. thanks all

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    Default Re: need help with hb10 in my school

    Man Im a newbie myself and it looks like you hit rock bottom pretty hard. Toooo many negs were used, it just made it seem like you texted her to annoy the sh1t outta her. when you first texted her she responded pretty well to the first few negs thats when you should have pulled her in by dropping the convo or switched it to maybe talk about something that happened when you met her last night. DON'T BE SCARED TO COMPLIMENT HER. The last text makes it seem like you were being a needy butthole just be careful the way you talk to some girls not all of them will respond the way you want them too. There are many things on PUA to help you send that first text with leading text messages that will keep her interested. Happy gaming man

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    Default Re: need help with hb10 in my school

    Quote Originally Posted by damoneyman View Post
    Man Im a newbie myself and it looks like you hit rock bottom pretty hard. Toooo many negs were used, it just made it seem like you texted her to annoy the sh1t outta her. when you first texted her she responded pretty well to the first few negs thats when you should have pulled her in by dropping the convo or switched it to maybe talk about something that happened when you met her last night. DON'T BE SCARED TO COMPLIMENT HER. The last text makes it seem like you were being a needy butthole just be careful the way you talk to some girls not all of them will respond the way you want them too. There are many things on PUA to help you send that first text with leading text messages that will keep her interested. Happy gaming man
    ye i totally agree i went completely retard mode on this. i got no idea how to recover from this though. im, to much about negs really

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    Default Re: need help with hb10 in my school

    "me- wow, you really change facebook picture alot!
    her- haha, so? suuure we will do it your way and keep this
    me- haha thanks! now i get it you get 100 likes and it can last for a while!
    her- no its nothing like that, i dont even care about likes girls like that are pathetic, i post a picture if i think it looks good."

    This looks good, apart the "ahahahahahahah thanks miss facebook of the day" thing.
    The rest you were harsh with her. Remember, they are women, they are tender, they're looking for emotions, but not the negative ones.
    You came off as too strong, from what I can say. You should uplift the funny part and leave the negs. When she acts a little bitchy (they rarely do when you're flirting with them), be playful.

    Let's give you an example my bohemian friend
    Some days ago I started to sing "Beautiful Lie" from Cosmo Klein in the car. I was with a girl. Later on, she texted me something teasing/negging/testing, because I told her I had a challenge for her and didn't tell her what was, so she replied "so you think you're so charming, you really are a beautiful lie. Very much a lie, but very little beautiful :-p". I answered "ahah, so cute, joking with my favourite song ".

    Yeah... I could have negged her... but wasn't it more fun to me to simply reframe her shit to a funnier thing?

    Do you get what I'm saying mate?

    Re-start flirting and teasing her, but not in a way that puts her down.
    Something like "You're gonna be my older sister... you seem to be a badass, it's good to have such a badass sister, so that she can defend myself from all the crazy girls!! :-p"

    Good luck dude.

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    Default Re: need help with hb10 in my school

    Quote Originally Posted by lenric View Post
    "me- wow, you really change facebook picture alot!
    her- haha, so? suuure we will do it your way and keep this
    me- haha thanks! now i get it you get 100 likes and it can last for a while!
    her- no its nothing like that, i dont even care about likes girls like that are pathetic, i post a picture if i think it looks good."

    This looks good, apart the "ahahahahahahah thanks miss facebook of the day" thing.
    The rest you were harsh with her. Remember, they are women, they are tender, they're looking for emotions, but not the negative ones.
    You came off as too strong, from what I can say. You should uplift the funny part and leave the negs. When she acts a little bitchy (they rarely do when you're flirting with them), be playful.

    Let's give you an example my bohemian friend
    Some days ago I started to sing "Beautiful Lie" from Cosmo Klein in the car. I was with a girl. Later on, she texted me something teasing/negging/testing, because I told her I had a challenge for her and didn't tell her what was, so she replied "so you think you're so charming, you really are a beautiful lie. Very much a lie, but very little beautiful :-p". I answered "ahah, so cute, joking with my favourite song ".

    Yeah... I could have negged her... but wasn't it more fun to me to simply reframe her sh1t to a funnier thing?

    Do you get what I'm saying mate?

    Re-start flirting and teasing her, but not in a way that puts her down.
    Something like "You're gonna be my older sister... you seem to be a badass, it's good to have such a badass sister, so that she can defend myself from all the crazy girls!! :-p"

    Good luck dude.
    you seem to have some sort of logic/plan. and i like your idea! thing is i reopened. exactly the same positive response in start ended up she stop answer me. but it was a really really short convo. thing is im thinking to myself that she is lost now, you cant recover from that but it feels like you know recovers aswell! so basiclly i tagged her in a ugly photo and the photo said " tag someone with nipples like this" and it was like retarded man nipples. i tagged her to see if she wrote in the chat and i was gonna tell her, lol wrong alice, ( alice is her name ) and continue from that but it ended up being me that wrote her.
    me- haha, i just realized i tagged the wrong alice, my bad
    she- hahahah :'D
    me- and i guess im sorry for being a jerk the other day to
    she- haha yes you were
    at this point im going with what have actually been working sometimes before but suddenly wwhen i sent it, it just seemed retarded.
    me- " no problem, cute that you apolagized" haha
    and now there was no answer, she read it aswell. and i gone rage mode on myself haha. well well thanks for pointers and advices man, i will remember this

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    Default Re: need help with hb10 in my school

    No problemo amigo

    Well, when you neg a girl, you shouldn't apologize later. It makes you pretty fucking incongruent. Instead, you should have given to her a little value. A little approval.
    Let's say...

    Her: hey, I was Miss College 2012!
    You: yeah, your eyebrows are cute... it's good to meet a Miss College, the pleasure is all yours! Or mine... ours!

    You get the point, mate? Once you negged the girl, and if she's not acting a little bitchy, but is trying to display some value to you, you should give her a little approval... so that you don't come across as a jerk, but never apologize.

    Also, your last line was kinda supplicating/needy.


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