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    Question GF's X farkbuddy

    Hi I've been dating my girl for a few months, I know about a fark buddy she had and I know they stopped seeing eachother because of me.

    a few days ago she told me they talked on the phone and she likes to meet him, she told him nothing is going to happen she has a bf now.

    well yesterday my girl told me she invited him for dinner tonight

    I told my gf that "it would be weird but ok" she didn't really respond to that.

    I'm not really jealous, I just don't know how comfortable with the whole situation? any advice?

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    Default Re: GF's X farkbuddy

    Wait wait wait. Your girlfriend is going out to dinner with a guy she used to sleep with casually?

    How could you possibly have said ok to this?

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    Default Re: GF's X farkbuddy

    I think I was misunderstood, she's not going out with him she is inviting him as a guest for dinner, with me and her roomate

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    Default Re: GF's X farkbuddy

    Why on earth would she or you want to have dinner with a guy who farked her?

    I find this disrespectful in so many levels.

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    Default Re: GF's X farkbuddy

    Well I don't see myself as the jealous type, but you do have a point now that I think about it.
    any way I will get this through one time, even though I have a feeling i'm being tested.

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    Default Re: GF's X farkbuddy

    How could you of possibly let her get away with this? I don't care if you aren't the jealous type this is just being used and being a wimp. Your chances of farking this women if you haven't already just went to zero because she knows she can run game on you. The most logical response when she said that she was going to invite a ex fark buddy to dinner was to man up and say that's cool but I won't be there and on that night go out and meet other ladies and have a good time. If you had of done that she will have more respect for you and her ex fark buddy would of been history. She is now going to give you a hard time and the runaround, and flake because you didn't man up!

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    Default Re: GF's X farkbuddy

    Its funny how i thought YOU would be the fbuddy and she would have a bf lol. The actual situation is less common on these boards lol.

    He is trying to get with her again... tgis is pretty clear. Now is she after him? Ifvshe is inviting him for dinner, she probably is.

    Flyer1 has the right idea. You could have also been an fbuddy to her but u wanted actual commitment. Her bringing her old fbuddy is just plain wrong. She must not be ready to commit.

    Play it cool, dont get offended or emotional and go game other girls. Show her if she wants him she can have him.

    Unless of course she wants to have a threesome. Then u got a whole other set of problems lol!
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    Default Re: GF's X farkbuddy

    does ur gf have any normal friends that are chicks? or did she wipe them all off for "guys" ? cause bringing an x fb to dinner with your bf and roomy sounds like she has no other friends if we're looking at it optimistically,,,,,

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    Default Re: GF's X farkbuddy

    yes she has girlfriends but and male friends, I didnt see that as a problem since I also have many female friends.

    I didn't think it was that harsh.
    anyway as you guys advised me I will play it cool.
    and I should probably consider my options.

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    Default Re: GF's X farkbuddy

    Invite one of your ex without mentioning it to your gf.


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