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Thread: What's wrong with this text?

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    Default What's wrong with this text?

    Hi guys,
    I decided to approach an HB10 just to prove myself that I have two balls but I incredibly managed to get her number!

    I sent this text to her later:
    "Hi bue-eyed girl, it was totally random meeting you earlier. Do handsome men often stop you and talk to you? ;-) ".

    She replied: " Hi, Green-eyed... quite often, yes :-)".

    And I said: "I hope I was the one who made your day ;-) Do you work as a super model? ;-)".

    I did not get a response after that! Do you think the issue with my text was giving her value? Sounds like I broke the record of sending a shit text :-D

    Thanks guys

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    Default Re: What's wrong with this text?

    Since she is an HB10 as you say, the obvious mistake is that you sent her what EVERY SINGLE OTHER GUY has in the past. She is used to receiving compliments and I wouldn't say that yours was done in a very groundbreaking way, so that she sees that you are different somehow.
    Another thing about your approach is that you overvalued her and you also asked for validation which seemed needy, making it clear that SHE is the prize. In HB10 situations you should always overvalue yourself and act like YOU are the prize. I think that your next message should be turning things around.

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    Default Re: What's wrong with this text?

    Mate, you hope your team wons the championship. You hope the horse you bet wons the race. You don't hope to be the one who made her day. That's called "Hey, I'm looking for your approval, but I'm kinda trying that you don't discover it."

    Btw, you don't ask a girl if she works as a supermodel. You rarely ask a girl something... you tell her to tell you something you really want to know, not just know to be nice.
    You asked her if she's a supermodel. Ok, you tried to be funny, however, you failed. You tried to suck her balls. You wondered "ok, if I compliment her in this way, maybe she'll answer me in a funny way, probably next week we kiss!". So wrong mate.

    Last but not least, look at your texts.

    "Hi bue-eyed girl, it was totally random meeting you earlier. Do handsome men often stop you and talk to you? ;-) ".
    "I hope I was the one who made your day ;-) Do you work as a super model? ;-)".

    I mean, the first one was C&F, the last one was H&B (humble and boring). Tell me if this sounds congruent to you mate.

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    Default Re: What's wrong with this text?

    Thanks guys. Your advice is gold!

    I think I got too excited and kissed up. Bummer

    What would be a good text reply do you think? Can you give me a couple of examples please? I really have issues to understand the subtle difference between dry/arrogant text and cocky text. Sometimes my texts work like a charm and sometimes I blow it out in a second

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    Default Re: What's wrong with this text?

    Well mate, my advice is to simply think on an arrogant sentence about yourself. Let's say... "I'm the most beautiful guy you've seen today."

    This is only an arrogant banter, nothing else. So you gotta add some humor. "I'm the most beautiful guy you've seen today, so let's take a picture "

    You go to some shopping mall. You ask the girl for some shit you wanna know about some Levi's jeans. She'll even brought you 2 jeans she thinks you could like. Obviously she's being nice, because she wants to sell something. However, you can be playful... and cocky. "What a beautiful way to start our relationship "

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    Default Re: What's wrong with this text?

    Quote Originally Posted by aussiearef View Post
    Hi guys,
    I decided to approach an HB10 just to prove myself that I have two balls but I incredibly managed to get her number!

    I sent this text to her later:
    "Hi bue-eyed girl, it was totally random meeting you earlier. Do handsome men often stop you and talk to you? ;-) ".

    She replied: " Hi, Green-eyed... quite often, yes :-)".

    And I said: "I hope I was the one who made your day ;-) Do you work as a super model? ;-)".

    I did not get a response after that! Do you think the issue with my text was giving her value? Sounds like I broke the record of sending a sh1t text :-D


    Thanks guys
    I don't really believe in.building attraction through text but you should have given her some teasing.

    you're so pretty, can you cook too? If not I can't speak to you.

    or

    I don't want you to get the wrong idea you are beautiful but I have needs. Currently I'm in a committed loving relationship with 8 women. the cook, cleaner, assassin, fitness chick, masseuse, sexkitten, sports chick, and a therapists. What skills do you have?

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    Default Re: What's wrong with this text?

    LOL that 'can you cook' thing made me burst into laughing! I wish I knew these stuff last night. I can't help laugh when I imagine her face after reading such a cocky text


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