There is this girl from school that was attracted to me from day one, i teased her and she loved it. We started to talk on the phone for hours at a time, talking about childhood memories, movies, travels, pretty much everything (excluding her and my past love life). We were working as group in a project with her friend and another girl, and i got into an altercation with her friend that resulted in mass insults back and forth and me calling her(the girl i like) out for taking her side, and told her that we are friends no more.. But, at the back of my mind i knew i still liked her, i messaged her the other day saying "just watched the new GI joe movie, reminded me of you" she replied by saying "interesting?" i said "i won't be able to look at you the same way", she replied "okay weirdo.. lol". I then messaged her last night asking her when her economics final(we take the same class at different times) was, seeing it as a good opportunity to rekindle flames.
She then exploded, saying "are we talking??" "are we friends again?, because last time i checked we weren't" . I replied " Lol.. I'm tired of these games lets be cool". She then went off on a huge out burst "telling me that i should apologize for the shit i pulled and that after that she will think about being "cool", and that we both are not in dire need of friends and would survive without a new friend, and unless i wanted to be freaking genuine that i shouldn't bother. I replied by saying "lets go for some tea(i know she prefers it over coffee), I'm going to be at school studying on my econ", she replied by saying "not in school till 5", i said "ill probably still be there msg me when you get in." , (No reply from her)
Sorry for that long passage, if she shows up and messaged me around 5, i will be meeting her. I am expecting the interaction to go sour, she having an outburst and me having one too. I feel like if i apologize i will be giving her all the power and that she will never respect me or be attracted me more than a friend. During this time away, i have been really into self improvement, dressing better being more confident , talking to a lot of girl, she might have noticed this patter change.
What do you think i should do? how can i use that emotion of "anger" and change it into "love" ,what are things i can do during the interaction today that will turn the tides into my favour? I thank you in advance, i could use any of your knowledge today. Please do reply