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    Default Made gf wait too long?

    hi I think I got myself in a bit of a mess.
    today I went out of town to meet some friends alone my girl had some lessons.
    I came back went to my home she called me I told her I'll be at her place in a few minutes, That turned into an hour as I was reading an article.
    she called me again and asked me where I am I told her that I was reading.
    she got upset and told me she was going to get smokes.
    I met her as she left the house (were neighbors) she walked fast and gave an act "go home and read your'e article" she said she waited for me she continued walking I went home.

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    Default Re: Made gf wait too long?

    So she's your girlfriend. She misses u, and u made her wait. Explain to her you didn't mean to hurt her, you just lost track of time.

    All girls are emotional before logical. I preach that until my face turns blue... She'll cool off. It's not like you cheated on her. What r u worried about. Be an alpha and make her forget about it

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    Default Re: Made gf wait too long?

    I'm considering is she worth all this work?
    I like her but she likes playing this games and I want to find a way to finish most of it or just cut her loose.

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    Default Re: Made gf wait too long?

    Women are all about emotions, so you should have followed her, grabbed her arm and kissed... but the kind of kiss that makes her pants get wet, ya know? Then you shoud've said "you were saying..."

    Now mate, just meet her and kiss/make the sweet love and you'll see the sun turn up again

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    Default Re: Made gf wait too long?

    there's really nothing worse than someone who doesn't keep their word, atleast let her know you're gonna be delayed

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    Default Re: Made gf wait too long?

    Well now she's acting all cold.
    I don't like this, whenever she takes her sweet time it's ok' but when I do It's the end of the world.

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    I'm not sure how much patience I've got left.
    any one ha an Idea of making her see that and change her behavior ?or should I just end this whole thing?

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    Default Re: Made gf wait too long?

    Woah man.you love her.write that down read it 77 times till it sinks.Why am i saying this?I don't like how you are handling a woman who really likes you.

    You need to break this loophole or else it may compound problems for you.
    I'm pretty sure you may be a little nervous thats why you opted reading an article when you know you have to meet your lover.

    When you sell yourself or get a girl to accept you as the caring guy or a lover you got to live up to that character.Am not saying be needy but when a woman is attracted to you being there for her and staying the attractive guy by amplifying the attraction etc should be key.

    tell her that you are the kind of guy that when you set goals you follow through.you were about to tell her you will be there when she said the smokes thingy.when you met her she triggered the side of you that doesn't pressure women into doing what they do not seem to want to do.lastly add that you are putting your huge ego aside because she is important.l8r


    This should rewind the fact that you hurt her.And give her the option to be open to you.Even if she doesn't eventually(few days) she may take the reason and forgive you.However if you do not show her your alpha in this case by giving her the impression you will take care of her emotionally,she may unconsciously rationalize you may abandon her which it bad for the future.Women aligned themselves with alphas cuz they knew they would take care of them.you may update this thread.

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    Default Re: Made gf wait too long?

    well this morning I didn't make her coffee as I usually do because she woke up herself, when she saw me making me some coffee she asked if it was for her and I said NO.

    she made one herself.


    she got to the shower and went to school for a lesson, I know she has a another lesson later but usually she comes home or asks me to come and keep her company.

    This time though she's playing cold, she called me I didn't have the phone on me so I called her Back an hour later.

    she acted mad on the phone said she didn't call me we ended the conversation.

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    Default Re: Made gf wait too long?

    Quote Originally Posted by Fl3my View Post
    well this morning I didn't make her coffee as I usually do because she woke up herself, when she saw me making me some coffee she asked if it was for her and I said NO.

    she made one herself.


    she got to the shower and went to school for a lesson, I know she has a another lesson later but usually she comes home or asks me to come and keep her company.

    This time though she's playing cold, she called me I didn't have the phone on me so I called her Back an hour later.

    she acted mad on the phone said she didn't call me we ended the conversation.
    Your problems are compounding like i said.Text her what i told you if you may.heres a a sample copy and paste if you will.

    ..am the kind of guy that sets goals and follow through.i was about to tell you ill will be there then you said the smokes thing.when we met you triggered the side of me that doesn't pressure women into doing what they do not seem to want to do.am putting my huge ego aside because your important.l8r

    wanted to tell you this l8r but took action.i noticed one thing about you.


    send this now.then you may update the thread. when you see her be normal and stop punishing her cuz i don't think she did anything wrong.Stay alpha!!


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