Hey guys! I struggle with this too as im dating like 4 girls. One of them probably wants a boyfriend. Im working up the balls to give this speech I found. Credit to James Marshall: Here it goes. In a peak conversational point. Just say you want to have a quick chat about where "were at". Look I love hanging out with you and in fairness to you I just want to tell you that I want to continue seeing you but im not looking for an exclusive relationship and Im not offering that. If thats not for you I completely understand. She says yes and ur golden or no and you move on. I still have to do this!