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    Default Re: Looks like a relationship, but I don't want one.

    Hey guys! I struggle with this too as im dating like 4 girls. One of them probably wants a boyfriend. Im working up the balls to give this speech I found. Credit to James Marshall: Here it goes. In a peak conversational point. Just say you want to have a quick chat about where "were at". Look I love hanging out with you and in fairness to you I just want to tell you that I want to continue seeing you but im not looking for an exclusive relationship and Im not offering that. If thats not for you I completely understand. She says yes and ur golden or no and you move on. I still have to do this!

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    Default Re: Looks like a relationship, but I don't want one.

    I hate running written script, its like beating around the bush. Why I got in this situation is because I didn't flirt sexually enough or demonstrate body language. Basicly I meet her at a bar thanks to some friends, talked and teased abit (made a paper flower and gave it to her) then got her number the next day, we talked on the phone and ''bonded'' (I shouldn't of done that) now she's the one inviting me to the movies, you know. So'.. I'mma see what goes in the movies. I'm applying game this time since basicly its the second time she see's me but alone.

    (I don't like to game girls when group of friends are around I flirt instead, I game when alone)
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    Default Re: Looks like a relationship, but I don't want one.

    Quote Originally Posted by OhSnap View Post
    I hate running written script, its like beating around the bush. Why I got in this situation is because I didn't flirt sexually enough or demonstrate body language. Basicly I meet her at a bar thanks to some friends, talked and teased abit (made a paper flower and gave it to her) then got her number the next day, we talked on the phone and ''bonded'' (I shouldn't of done that) now she's the one inviting me to the movies, you know. So'.. I'mma see what goes in the movies. I'm applying game this time since basicly its the second time she see's me but alone.

    (I don't like to game girls when group of friends are around I flirt instead, I game when alone)
    Jesus, dont follow the script pull the idea out. You need to give her some sort of talk in that sense. She likes you and you have to make it clear your not looking for

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    Default Re: Looks like a relationship, but I don't want one.

    What you don't seem to understand is that it takes two to tango. If you don't want a relationship, you can't be in a relationship. I know, I just blew your mind, right? Just keep reiterating that you don't want a relationship and youll be fine.
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    Default Re: Looks like a relationship, but I don't want one.

    I did have a question in this thread saying I want to turn this into a fark buddy since I never actually had one, still don't even want it from her no more.

    @DevilDog I don't need no speech I meet her 3 days ago, she's just the one getting ideas.

    So basicly she calls me when I was out changing the plans all of a sudden. Now instead of being alone it was with two girls. A guy I knew and her girl friend. My friend greeted me while I was waiting for them and she acted as if I wasn't there, I said hi and she went like ''Oh didn't see you, hi'' Basicly I didn't want a girlfriend and she was being way to attach the time I meet her and on the phone, anyways.. Watched the movie all four of us and smoke a spliff later. I kind of lost interest in her by the fact that she's younger and doesn't reach my chest. Guess its back to gaming.
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