So'.. I've meet this girl and we've connected on the following day. We relate to the same problem, friends and way of thinking. Basicly we are almost exactly the same mentally.
She's cute, attractive but young, I'm not looking for a relationship since I've been able to be comfortable with girls for the past months and deeply inside, I'd love a relationship but at the moment, I don't want one.
So basicly what happended was we meet and talked on the phone the second day at night for 3 hours. From there we really connected, she started telling me her problems and how she see's things. She kind of blew my mind since, I thought and experienced most of her things. I even told her ''We got really comfortable fast'' and ''We relate to stuff a lot'' I have told her that same day I'm not looking for a relationship.
Yet following from the phone day, we've texted and all but everyday, I have the feeling this is going in the direction of a relationship and I'm not down with that. At the moment she's the one running after me which is cool but still it seems this is going towards a relationship, the fact I'm answering her as if I was a boyfriend (realized this recently) isn't helping so basicly I'm giving mixed messages.
I have flirted with her but not sexually enough.. I believe its because of that.
How could I either get her to just be a Fark buddy or into an open relationship?