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    Default Losing this girl it seems like

    So heres the story

    this girl i've known for two and a half years ..she's always had a thing for me but i've always been either A. busy or B. had a girlfriend

    she admitted to liking me many times and i finally decided it was time to make a move, and so i did.

    Shes hung out at my house quite a few times and we've made out but not much more than that

    Everything was going great for a while but now suddenly i feel like were just drifting apart and shes losing interest, i'm not really sure what steps i should take, or perhaps i should just let it happen?

    any advice would be great Thanks

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    Default Re: Losing this girl it seems like

    given that she was at your house, have you kissed her, makeout,had sex / other stuff with her?

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    Default Re: Losing this girl it seems like

    We've made out, as stated above, but nothing more than that really.

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    Default Re: Losing this girl it seems like

    How much attraction have you been building with her? If you have been talking with her often and doing nothing to try and get her to chase after you, then that is the reason she is drifting. She's bored and wants the thrill of the chase. You can't be drowning her in attention because you are all of a sudden interested in her.

    But like I said, I don't know how you have been building attraction with this one. I also don't know how your conversations go, how you've been around her, and so on. So in other words, my help to you is limited until you give us more details.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: Losing this girl it seems like

    Quote Originally Posted by Swagman View Post
    How much attraction have you been building with her? If you have been talking with her often and doing nothing to try and get her to chase after you, then that is the reason she is drifting. She's bored and wants the thrill of the chase. You can't be drowning her in attention because you are all of a sudden interested in her.

    But like I said, I don't know how you have been building attraction with this one. I also don't know how your conversations go, how you've been around her, and so on. So in other words, my help to you is limited until you give us more details.
    I don't actually remember the last time i was the one who initiated contact with her first, she's always the first to start conversation with me, so its not like i'm acting clingy or anything of that sort...but we talk a majority of the day through texts/facebook etc etc...

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    Default Re: Losing this girl it seems like

    So there's the point, she's getting bored. Talking that much with someone is so fucking boring. It means you have nothing else to do than to talk with her. Who the hell wants something they already got?

    Start making yourself less available. 6/7 funny phrases and that's all. Don't answer sometimes. Other times, simply state you gotta go, even though you don't have anything else to do than to jerk off.

    Stop making yourself too available mate

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    Default Re: Losing this girl it seems like

    Quote Originally Posted by lenric View Post
    So there's the point, she's getting bored. Talking that much with someone is so farking boring. It means you have nothing else to do than to talk with her. Who the hell wants something they already got?

    Start making yourself less available. 6/7 funny phrases and that's all. Don't answer sometimes. Other times, simply state you gotta go, even though you don't have anything else to do than to jerk off.

    Stop making yourself too available mate
    Well if i suddenly start doing that won't she catch on and notice something weird/different?

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    Default Re: Losing this girl it seems like

    Yes, she'll try to start talking to you more often (if she's still interested), and probably ask you what happened, to what you can answer "I'm busy with a project", or... the teasing way (ya know, it's that time of the month, very much complicated to us women. You guys don't know...).

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    Default Re: Losing this girl it seems like

    Quote Originally Posted by lenric View Post
    Yes, she'll try to start talking to you more often (if she's still interested), and probably ask you what happened, to what you can answer "I'm busy with a project", or... the teasing way (ya know, it's that time of the month, very much complicated to us women. You guys don't know...).

    ah, okay i see, thanks a lot!

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    Default Re: Losing this girl it seems like

    update - so we talked yesterday and i seemed non-carish ( answers that show no interest or very little, s and she asked what was wrong and i just stated i was busy with something and i'd talk to her later.

    We ended up talking right before i went to sleep but today we havent spoken a word to eachother which is very strange ...where do i go from here? do i wait for her to text me or should i intiate contact and if i should text first how do i go about doing it?


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