Re: Losing this girl it seems like
How much attraction have you been building with her? If you have been talking with her often and doing nothing to try and get her to chase after you, then that is the reason she is drifting. She's bored and wants the thrill of the chase. You can't be drowning her in attention because you are all of a sudden interested in her.
But like I said, I don't know how you have been building attraction with this one. I also don't know how your conversations go, how you've been around her, and so on. So in other words, my help to you is limited until you give us more details.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X