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    Default Re: Need a little help ramping up a conversation with an HB9

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    I'd say go for it, since she's showing compliance already & agreeing to what you're putting out there.

    I'd go with the whole, "I'm getting comfortable with swapping digits, but there's one burning question you must answer first.."

    T-Mal, I'm new here and I have already seen many of your posts. What fascinates me is that these lines seem to come to you so very effortlessly. I have seen you say it has been years of practice, but have you always been naturally flirtatious and improved your game or was this something you developed through pua?

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    Default Re: Need a little help ramping up a conversation with an HB9

    Quote Originally Posted by bhawker View Post
    T-Mal, I'm new here and I have already seen many of your posts. What fascinates me is that these lines seem to come to you so very effortlessly. I have seen you say it has been years of practice, but have you always been naturally flirtatious and improved your game or was this something you developed through pua?
    I actually hung out with girls a lot of times, rather than guys.
    So I got used to being around them & joking with them... basically getting in their inner circle.

    Then, I also spent 20 years playing in a rock band, so I was constantly around girls & hanging out at the clubs when they would come see the band.

    It developed naturally, but was due to the "practice".


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    Default Re: Need a little help ramping up a conversation with an HB9

    Swing and a miss... ah well, I guess that's why it's called plenty of fish. Maybe should have flirted a little more before the pushing the close.

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    Default Re: Need a little help ramping up a conversation with an HB9

    Sorry for the double post but for some reason I can't edit:

    is there any way of recovering this? I tend to find once I blow an n-close it's pretty much game over.

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    Default Re: Need a little help ramping up a conversation with an HB9

    You COULD treat it as a "sh!t test" & just let it roll off & pretend you never went for the number.

    Just keep gaming & flirting like you were. Playful, fun, interesting.. etc.

    Chances are, she might decide to bring up the number swap herself if you demonstrate that you're waaaaaay more interesting than the other guys who are messaging her.



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    Default Re: Need a little help ramping up a conversation with an HB9

    Yeah that's what I was thinking, shame the old "shut up and kiss me" fails safe is not an option haha.

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    Default Re: Need a little help ramping up a conversation with an HB9

    LOL!!

    Yeah, that DOES work better in person than via text/email/messaging...

    And something else I just thought of, that I've been meaning to share:

    It's really easy to get the number AFTER you kiss the girl! (Again, this applies to "in person" scenarios).

    I have used the "Shut up and kiss me" line via text with my fiancee, & it was effective in overcoming her little sh!t tests. (Even though I couldn't actually kiss her at that moment).

    But it disrupted her frame & state of mind & got her to be more playful & feisty, instead of irritable.


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