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    Default Need a little help ramping up a conversation with an HB9

    Righty I'm currently messaging a HB9 that's a dead ringer for Frankie from the Saturdays and well... I'm running low on the creative front.

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    Me: I'm actually heading off to Thailand in a few months, any travel tips?! Have an awesome Wednesday!

    Her: Ohhh you can't go saying that, I'm jealous already ha. There is only one tip you will ever need..........TAKE ME WITH YOU. Where abouts are you going? x

    Me: Well I'm sure I could fit you into my backpack ; ) I'm doing all the Thai Islands then the East coast of Australia. I'm only going for a couple of months though as I start a new job in Sept. x

    Her: Yes ha. Oh you'll love it, although I only did one island and did couple of cities. I'm thinking of going back for a month end of the year or next year.
    I'm so jealous ha x

    Me: Getting through customs might be exciting, you might have to flirt your way past some tricky questions haha. Awesome, which island? My mum is convinced I'm going to be eaten by sharks, probably shouldn't have told her about the diving. Xx

    Her: I reckon I could do that, Thai people are so nice! Koh Samui. Haha bless, I would be scared to dive too....I went snorkelling soon as I saw a jellyfish I was out haha. x



    As you can see I need a little inspiration

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    Default Re: Need a little help ramping up a conversation with an HB9

    I'd hit her with something like: "You DO know the secret for distracting Jellyfish to make an escape don't you?.... you remove your bathing suit & swim to shore. They follow the suit because it's colorful. (At least that sounds like a good plan anyway! "

    It's slightly sexual, but not blatantly perverted.


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    Default Re: Need a little help ramping up a conversation with an HB9

    Awesome stuff as usual! How do you come up with this stuff lol.

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    Default Re: Need a little help ramping up a conversation with an HB9

    Years of flirting & practice my friend.

    Anytime you can playfully & casually inject something that describes "taking off clothes" go for it.

    Doing it like my example doesn't come across as creepy... it comes off as funny. (Plus it allows you to gauge her receptiveness to that sort of discussion.)

    The topic flies under the radar & bypasses her shield because it's pretty much innocent... but it opens the door & plants the seed to progress to a more sexual nature.



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    Default Re: Need a little help ramping up a conversation with an HB9

    I like those tactics, I normally try to do it but for some reason working it into a conversation seems difficult.

    I use the old "just off for a shower, try not to think about me all soapy and in the buff" a lot but inserting the sexual subtlety into the everyday seems to be a challenge.

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    Default Re: Need a little help ramping up a conversation with an HB9

    There are all kinds of ways to cleverly bring up the subject of nudity, without arousing suspicion.

    I've asked girls, "You know how a lot of guys seem to put "shirtless photos" in their profiles?... How come GIRLS never do that?? Sooooo disappointing... I feel left out! LOL!"

    They laugh because they know what you're talking about AND the fact that you were humorous about bringing up the subject of topless women.



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    Default Re: Need a little help ramping up a conversation with an HB9

    Just a quick update:

    I went with: I've book an awesome hotel for Koh Samui, it's soo cheap seemed silly not to. You DO know the secret for distracting Jellyfish to make an escape don't you?.... you remove your bathing suit & swim to shore. They follow the suit because it's colorful. (At least that sounds like a good plan anyway)! x

    Her: What's it called? The one we stayed in was like a jungle, I got eaten alive lol.
    Haha I didn't know that secret, ill remember next time x

    now from here I'm thinking I can go with pun on the jungle and eaten alive bit?

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    Default Re: Need a little help ramping up a conversation with an HB9

    All kinds of possibilities are opening here!
    She's definitely receptive.

    You COULD say something like, "My dilemma is this: Since I frequently go skinny dipping, I can't use that escape method, so I just might need to bring you along as a decoy. "


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    Default Re: Need a little help ramping up a conversation with an HB9

    Worked a charm,

    She came back with: well if that's the reason I'm coming I'm in! : ) x

    Think it might be time to number close, Might be a little soon tho?

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    Default Re: Need a little help ramping up a conversation with an HB9

    I'd say go for it, since she's showing compliance already & agreeing to what you're putting out there.

    I'd go with the whole, "I'm getting comfortable with swapping digits, but there's one burning question you must answer first.."



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