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    Default Building up a Fangirl Base

    I've been reading through some of the threads on getting women to chase you, and I am coming upon an interesting game plan that I want to execute:

    I want to build up a fangirl base. What I mean by this is that I want to have a group of women that are constantly chasing after me and competing for my attention. I have a few girls right now who I know have an interest in me. Originally, I decided that I just wanted them to go away because I was not interested in them. However, I now see their worth in building up my power and prestige.

    To execute this, I plan on flirting with girls, and then friend zone them after I have built up enough attraction. After that, I will begin to give them mixed signals to drive them crazy. From there on out, I will throw out a line just long enough to keep them chasing. Every now and again, I will reward them for their chasing, just to give them incentive to continue to do so.

    My goal is to make it so the girls are chasing me indefinitely. My questions to all of you out there are the following:

    Have you ever done something like this, and what did you do to build up that following? What would you recommend to do and NOT to do while building up your fangirl base?
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    Default Re: Building up a Fangirl Base

    This kind of thing is actually pretty effective from what I have seen of it in action.

    I would say be friends with them but don't friendzone them. For some reason putting a girl directly into the friend zone drives them nuts because they are supposed to be the one doing it to you, but I think if you leave it open what you guys are and just have the relationship without a label on it that the lack of a label will drive them to want to put a label on it, but be scared of being rejected.

    If you go around just rejecting them then a lot of girls are going to be intimidated by this and won't even bother chasing you. You are walking a slippery slope by that's my 4 cents (sorry inflation ya know?)
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    Default Re: Building up a Fangirl Base

    Alright. Well, I was thinking of indiscreetly putting them into the friend zone by saying something like "You're almost like a sister to me" stuff like that which implies that I've friend zoned them. However, I would never flat out tell them "I don't want a relationship". I guess that goes hand in hand with giving them mixed signals though.

    My plan also never involved rejecting them, but it didn't involve accepting them either. My goal was to keep them in a gray zone that they wanted to break out of, but they never would unless I gave them the strict go-ahead.

    So what I'm gathering is to not put a label on what kind of relationship me and a woman has, whether it be dating or a friendship. Is this done through giving the mixed signals, or is there another way of going about with this?
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    Default Re: Building up a Fangirl Base

    Frankly it seems a bit sociopathic man people are not mere objects that you use to satisfy your sexual urges. They have feelings. Is it really worth it to you?

    2 cents

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    Default Re: Building up a Fangirl Base

    Fucking around with women is what they did to you when you were friendzoned every once in a while. Was that good? No. So don't do to others whatever you don't wanna be seen done to you.

    The road to be an Alpha Man, as in, what every PUA must be, is to respect every single person on this planet. Respect women. Don't toy around with them.

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    Default Re: Building up a Fangirl Base

    My thoughts are mixed on this. I'm certainly not in it for the sex, and I don't want sex. I'm just simply for the reputation and popularity that I desire. I guess I sort of see it as a DHV if women are chasing you. It shows that you have a ton of value.

    I certainly respect women, but we have to be mindful of what we are doing. As pick-up artists, we are basically using psychological manipulation to get a girl to find us more attractive than someone else. If you use the BF Destroyer Method, is that respecting who she is? No, you're destroying a potentially good relationship because you want her. It doesn't matter if she likes the relationship or not, all that matters is that she will be ours. When we push away a girl we like simply because it will increase attraction, is that respecting her? By using these tricks, methods, techniques and so on, we're just trying to get an advantage in the situation. It doesn't matter if she wants a relationship or not, we just simply want her regardless.

    I wouldn't see it as necessary for me to do this, only a good majority of the people who know me mislabel me as the absolutely wrong person, and this results in them rejecting me and passing me off as a nobody. Of course I have been fighting to kill this misconception, but there's still a good number of them who won't listen or who continue to perceive me as the "Nice, non-popular, innocent, insignificant" Swagman. Hell, there's one girl who goes out and parties all the time and hits on every guy on campus. When I told her about how I had been out drinking, smoking, and doing other things, she called me a liar for a week because she thought I was "Too nice and innocent" for that. She literally could not accept that I was who I said I was. Now that she knows I was telling the truth, she refuses to talk to me simply because I'm not so nice and innocent anymore. I never had any intention of hooking up with her, but the fact that there are more ignorant people like that on my campus and in my home town infuriates me.

    Having a popularity base leads you to victory in the bigger scene. I don't want to be successful with JUST one girl. I want to be successful with EVERYONE, the guys, the girls, the works. I want to dominate my campus like a king, and I want anyone who walks through those front doors to know who owns this party. That is why I want to build up a following.
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    Default Re: Building up a Fangirl Base

    Nah dude these techniques aren't manipulation they're just how the attraction game is played. You can use it for good or bad.

    At the end of the day does it matter what anyone else thinks about you? You can't please everybody. There will always be a bigger fish. What really matters is your character. Who cares if someone else thinks you're "nice, non-popular, insignificant, innocent" Swagman. Why are you letting others define you? Just focus on being the best person you can be that's all you can really do.

    An adage that I think applies here: the world does not revolve around you.

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    Default Re: Building up a Fangirl Base

    It sounds more like you're looking for approval - why?

    You don't need it, buddy. It's a waste of time and energy. To put things into perspective a bit, think about it like this:

    You're raising the expectations people have of you. You think it's tough running DHV on someone you don't know well? Try running it on someone who knows you and has certain expectations - she'll want more. There's no way around that. What are you gonna say? "I'm Swagman and I have groupies!" Then what? It's pointless

    In my experience, the less they know about you and the less they expect, the better. I fooled around with a couple of girls back in December. I was able to do that because they didn't know that "my reputation precedes me" as a friend of mine pointed out. So, they didn't have high expectations. They didn't know who I was in the way you want to be known until I began running game on them. They didn't expect it. No expectations only leaves for room to improve. Think about that

    Besides, you do own the party if you see what I'm getting at - approval is for AFC's and you're beyond that!
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    Red face Re: Building up a Fangirl Base

    You know, you're all right. Here comes a little interesting fact that you may all find unbelievable:

    I'm autistic.

    For a majority of my life, I've been fighting to understand the norms of society. I've literally had to go through and learn everything that everybody else takes for granted. Every time I thought I got something right, it turned out it would be wrong. I would always be at the bottom of the food chain, and no matter how hard I would try, I could never seem to get up. I tried hanging out around people who were always popular, but that never seemed to get me what I really wanted in life.

    I guess with the idea that I was now having some real lasting successes with this, I let the thought of finally getting what I've wanted all these years rush to my head. It was AFC for me to think that I should build up a fan base, and you are right Vic. I've already felt like a king these past few days looking at all the girls who were actually my type showing interest in me. And who does care what a few people think? I'm not going for these people anyways. And I guess letting this idea of dominance also made me forget something important that allowed me to enjoy the sports I did, and that is there will always be someone better than me.

    I'm glad I whip out my sometimes extremist inventions at you guys. Once again, you've helped me see the light of things again.
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    Default Re: Building up a Fangirl Base

    Being humble and correcting a mistake is a characteristic of a PUA also, one that you displayed now mate.
    The simply fact of befriending girls is DHV, nothing else matters.

    Best of luck out there PUA, kudos!


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