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    Default Re: Friendzoning A Girl. How to?

    "a woman in love or hurt is worse than the most barbaric man." -Nietzche.

    What he does NOT want to do, is hurt her, he has to make her NOT like him.
    Or she'll seriously mess things up for him.

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    Default Re: Friendzoning A Girl. How to?

    Quote Originally Posted by The Red Baron View Post


    This is some of the worst advice I've ever read on here
    Don't be a chump.
    If it's over, it's over. the day, you'll have a woman hurt trying to get revenge on you...You'll cry about the day, you tried to be smooth, and tried to keep her..and arm length, just in case.

    There are plenty of fish in the sea. Let's not hurt this girl.
    Besides, if he wants her back.
    All he has to do, is act distant again.

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    Default Re: Friendzoning A Girl. How to?

    Quote Originally Posted by The Red Baron View Post


    This is some of the worst advice I've ever read on here
    Yeah, there is friendzoning... then there is "lose all dignity and self respect" to put someone in the friendzone. Yes, that strategy will put YOU in the friendzone, but its way better to put THEM in the friendzone.

    You can be straight up with someone, or if you want to spare their feelings just re-iterate things with the word "friend" in it like "You are such a cool friend"...." I am so glad we have become friends"...also, talk to them about girls you are chasing and ask them for their opinion.

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    Default Re: Friendzoning A Girl. How to?

    Quote Originally Posted by Professor View Post
    Don't be a chump.
    If it's over, it's over. the day, you'll have a woman hurt trying to get revenge on you...You'll cry about the day, you tried to be smooth, and tried to keep her..and arm length, just in case.

    There are plenty of fish in the sea. Let's not hurt this girl.
    Besides, if he wants her back.
    All he has to do, is act distant again.

    The point of pickup is not to hurt or abuse women, but to learn how their games work and what they find attractive. Everyone I've dated still likes me as a friend because I treat them with respect and dignity. But this ain't about me

    I'm not sure if you dont understand the question, or If you really believe the advice you're spouting. Nieche knew nothing of modern dating rituals. Follow your advice if you want to stay an AFC, or acknowledge that you need growth and that you came here to learn.

    Please stop posting things that are going to leave guys in the same rut they started in
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    Quote Originally Posted by BearScoob View Post
    Yeah, there is friendzoning... then there is "lose all dignity and self respect" to put someone in the friendzone. Yes, that strategy will put YOU in the friendzone, but its way better to put THEM in the friendzone.

    You can be straight up with someone, or if you want to spare their feelings just re-iterate things with the word "friend" in it like "You are such a cool friend"...." I am so glad we have become friends"...also, talk to them about girls you are chasing and ask them for their opinion.
    fools. I mean that in a lovable way.
    A womans' revenge for hurt pride, could be served in a cold plate after 1 month, 5 months or 5 years.
    examples of pain (sleeping with a good friend of yours, or your worst enemy..among many other things)

    If I were in you...I'd make her, make you become friends...

    Don't say I didn't tell you so.
    Forget pride, right now. TRUST ME on this one.

    A hurt woman is capable of anything.
    Be careful!

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    Default Re: Friendzoning A Girl. How to?

    @BearScoot:
    Actually, you're right..didn't think about it.
    A "You are such a cool friend...I don't want to mess it up, by going into a relationship.."
    JUst might work..
    Actually good call bearScoot.

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    Default Re: Friendzoning A Girl. How to?

    Quote Originally Posted by lenric View Post
    Disqualifying is really the only way... if you want to still have more value than her.

    "You're like my little sister"
    "Let's be just friends"
    "You're so nice, you'll be a good friend of mine"
    "Let's be blood brothers"
    "Let's be the sisterhood of the blue shirt"

    Etc
    These ^ are good - basically what girls use all the time on guys. They'll recognise it and either pursue you more, or give up, or actually just become friends. Personally I like RB's method (kino + DSQ) but the last three of these lines could work with that as well.

    Quote Originally Posted by Professor View Post
    I had that many times in the last 15 of PUA.

    "last 15 of PUA" - what does that mean? Do you mean "on your last 15 pick-up attempts"?

    What I do..
    Is, give her the eye.
    Which, is you talk to her, and look at her smiling, as if to say "You like me, right?" almost like asking for her approval.
    After, two or three nods of your head, and 'please' give me your 'Approval smiles'-
    I guarantee, she won't want you, if you were the last person on earth.
    I learned this to late (in my early 30's..).
    Wish, I had know before hand.
    so, I repeat.
    Talk to her as a friend, but every two minutes, smile as in asking a the question 'do you like me? Am I fine'
    At first , she might approve...but no matter who you are, she'll get the fark out of your face...
    I don't think this ^ will work to put a girl in the friendzone. I think it will just come off as needy and blow you out.

    Quote Originally Posted by Professor View Post
    "a woman in love or hurt is worse than the most barbaric man." -Nietzche.

    Yeah, in context of that ^ quote though, it is the same as "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" and "all is fair in love" it just means that a love-crazy or crazy-p*ssed off chick will fark up a guys' sh1t more than another guy would.

    What he does NOT want to do, is hurt her, he has to make her NOT like him.
    Or she'll seriously mess things up for him.
    In this ^ who is "he"? Are you talking about Nietzche and his quote or about the original poster and his question about girls in the friendzone? It is unclear.

    Quote Originally Posted by Professor View Post
    Don't be a chump.
    If it's over, it's over. the day, you'll have a woman hurt trying to get revenge on you...You'll cry about the day, you tried to be smooth, and tried to keep her..and arm length, just in case.

    What? This needs more context. I can't tell if you're talking about Nietzche, about the Red Baron or about the original poster.

    There are plenty of fish in the sea. Let's not hurt this girl.
    Besides, if he wants her back.
    All he has to do, is act distant again.
    Again, who?

    Quote Originally Posted by Professor View Post
    fools. I mean that in a lovable way.
    A womans' revenge for hurt pride, could be served in a cold plate after 1 month, 5 months or 5 years.
    examples of pain (sleeping with a good friend of yours, or your worst enemy..among many other things)

    Yeah. Definitely don't want to hurt her pride, that's where sustaining tension and having fun with her as friends comes into play.

    If I were in you...I'd make her, make you become friends...

    ...Make her? How?

    Don't say I didn't tell you so.
    Tell what to us/who?
    Forget pride, right now. TRUST ME on this one.
    ...alright, that's good general advice: "don't be prideful" but I don't understand how it fits in this context.

    A hurt woman is capable of anything.
    Be careful!
    We're not talking about hurting women. Who's talking about hurting women? No one is getting hurt when you decide to just be friends with a girl who finds you slightly attractive. If it wouldn't work out with two people then they'll just be friends and find other people. Girls aren't as hurt when you put them in the FZ because they have abundance mindset.

    *Lightbulb!*
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: Friendzoning A Girl. How to?

    Are you talking about Nietzche and his quote or about the original poster and his question about girls in the friendzone-

    Yes, it's a quote from Nietzche.
    Anyway, of course she'll blow you out...
    Personally, I'd rather stay on the safe side.
    Cause, when you're sarging improves, (and it will, just for the fact that you are sarging...)..this is whats happens.
    I had it happen to me:
    You 'll start picking up sooner or later, many chicks in your club or others..
    Club people in the end, after some years, sort of know each other.
    Now, The more you pick up, the more women WILL find you interesting..
    and that's when that ex-girlfriend is going to come to you and act all sexy and stuff..
    And there you could pull out a "But you blew me away..I'm too afraid you'll hurt me. Sorry."
    She'll see it as her fault NOT yours.


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