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    Default Friendzoning A Girl. How to?

    Is adding a girl on FB AFC?

    To be honest, I actually want to put her in the friendzone.

    It's a girl I K-closed about month back. Anyways, I have seen her twice since then at the bars/clubs. The attraction I had for her has pretty much faded, but I still want to be friends with the chick.

    Feel free to discuss other ways to friendzone a girl.

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    Default Re: Friendzoning A Girl. How to?

    Tell her she is like a sister to you. lol

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    Default Re: Friendzoning A Girl. How to?

    Yea, that's the best way to do it. When you friendzone a girl, you obliterate her defenses and give her a sense of security. However, after this you should flirt with her and start giving her mixed signals. This is what will drive a woman crazy and after you.

    Just make sure you don't abuse it though. Women are sensitive and will only handle so much before breaking and either leaving you or flipping sh1t on you.
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    Default Re: Friendzoning A Girl. How to?

    You want mixed signals. You need to be comfortable with kino, and also disqualify her. I wrote posts on several related things,

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...ino-guide.html
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...ier-guide.html

    Basically, keep hanging out with her, don't tell her explicitly - hey it's not going to work. You keep kino, be social, fun, flirty. Let her be interested in you but don't give any explicit rejection. Just be playful.

    Getting your own orbiters isn't really that hard. Read those and let me know if you need more clarification
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    Default Re: Friendzoning A Girl. How to?

    I noticed that female friends only make a real effort to hangout and whatnot only if there is at least a little bit of tension. So throw in some flirting here and there just to keep it interesting.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Friendzoning A Girl. How to?

    You could try being the biggest beta in existence. Being so needy that she gets creeped out could be the most potent way to friendzone.

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    Default Re: Friendzoning A Girl. How to?

    Disqualifying is really the only way... if you want to still have more value than her.

    "You're like my little sister"
    "Let's be just friends"
    "You're so nice, you'll be a good friend of mine"
    "Let's be blood brothers"
    "Let's be the sisterhood of the blue shirt"

    Etc

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    Default Re: Friendzoning A Girl. How to?

    woah man who friend zones a girl?They never get it in my opinion.but yh.the only way is to put her in that category in your mind and keep runnin the attraction thing.also start seeing her less eventually she will get the picture.but seriously it best to have what you want in mind and keep running game.

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    Default Re: Friendzoning A Girl. How to?

    I had that many times in the last 15 of PUA.

    What I do..
    Is, give her the eye.
    Which, is you talk to her, and look at her smiling, as if to say "You like me, right?" almost like asking for her approval.
    After, two or three nods of your head, and 'please' give me your 'Approval smiles'-
    I guarantee, she won't want you, if you were the last person on earth.
    I learned this to late (in my early 30's..).
    Wish, I had know before hand.
    so, I repeat.
    Talk to her as a friend, but every two minutes, smile as in asking a the question 'do you like me? Am I fine'
    At first , she might approve...but no matter who you are, she'll get the fark out of your face...

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    Default Re: Friendzoning A Girl. How to?

    Quote Originally Posted by Professor View Post
    I had that many times in the last 15 of PUA.

    What I do..
    Is, give her the eye.
    Which, is you talk to her, and look at her smiling, as if to say "You like me, right?" almost like asking for her approval.
    After, two or three nods of your head, and 'please' give me your 'Approval smiles'-
    I guarantee, she won't want you, if you were the last person on earth.
    I learned this to late (in my early 30's..).
    Wish, I had know before hand.
    so, I repeat.
    Talk to her as a friend, but every two minutes, smile as in asking a the question 'do you like me? Am I fine'
    At first , she might approve...but no matter who you are, she'll get the fark out of your face...



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