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    Unhappy Need help with ex girlfriend, please!

    Hello everybody! I am feeling a bit lost at the moment,

    I dated this girl for 2 years until we broke up. I was extremely devastated at the time. The reason why we broke up is because all of my friends turned on me because of stupid rumours going around which made me clinically depressed. '
    The girl didn't understand at the time why I was sad and thought it was because of her. We had such a bad time leading up to the break-up.
    A year has passed now since then, she has had 2 failed boyfriends ( both not serious at all ) She gets lonely really easily.
    Basically, I have spoken to her recently and we met, but I realized I have fallen back in love with her. I really don't know how to get her back! We are still physically and mentally close ( hugging, sitting close etc) and we can talk about anything. I would really like some advice on how to make her my girlfriend again, because I don't think that she is interested.

    If you can help that would be AMAZINGLY appreciated as it's killing me.

    A bonus is that her parent's still really like me and she has said ( because we've spoken about it ) who knows what will happen in the future.. but I have a feeling I'm ruining my chances. Please help!
    Thanks!

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    Default Re: Need help with ex girlfriend, please!

    THIS THREAD is full of information & advice that will be relevant to your situation.

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    Default Re: Need help with ex girlfriend, please!

    I broke up with a girl I had been with for a while, we had been apart for about a year as well. I just texted her and asked her How she felt about us, told her how I felt and BAM together again. You just have to tell her what you want, since you already have a deep emotional connection it's not weird to bring up your feelings, Just Ask. Good luck.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: Need help with ex girlfriend, please!

    Thanks, I don't know, I'll probably end up doing that, but I just don't want to do anything that would jeopardize us getting back together in the future, it might make her think, I don't want to talk to him.. he can have some time and get over me.

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    Default Re: Need help with ex girlfriend, please!

    Don't let a fictional situation you've created in your mind stop you from saying what you wanna say. If she's interested in getting back together then asking will get the job done, if not it was the wrong time anyway.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: Need help with ex girlfriend, please!

    That's true.... any advice leading up to this point? For example.. I think she might be playing hard to get... sometimes she's really nice and into me and putting a bunch of x's and then other times... slow.. unresponsive.. not many x's....

    hmm.. the power of the x... :l

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    Default Re: Need help with ex girlfriend, please!

    Well from what you're saying she seems responsive, I would take the pressure off yourself and game her like you would when you first met.

    Just be fun energetic and playful, you already have a lot of hook points to go off of. When the time is right and you've built attraction just be blunt about it.

    Don't go overboard and start declaring your love left right and centre, start small and don't tell her you're still in love with her unless she says it first.

    Chin up and good luck.

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    Default Re: Need help with ex girlfriend, please!

    Thanks, I will do that.. Cheers for the quick responses, I usually tend to stress out and beat myself up about it alot... Any tips on increasing the chances she'll say it back?

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    Default Re: Need help with ex girlfriend, please!

    Don't hold out that she is going to say it back... she probably won't.

    You just need to start flirting like made and flip her attraction switches. Then once she's there just go for it with "you know what, in three seconds I'm going to kiss you" then go for it.

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    Default Re: Need help with ex girlfriend, please!

    Ah, I see.. Okay, I think I am going over to her house for dinner with her family and just to chill out in the evening, I don't know if I will then... should I just play it cool?


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