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    Default I need help with random text - she never initiates

    Hi,
    I've been seeing a girl for 3 weeks. We got together for a coffee, and then I lined up a date the second week and we went for dinner and closed off with a little make out session, we had a great time together.

    I mentioned to her that she should come snowboarding with me sometime which I know she loves to do and she responded by saying
    "Well you know Iím busy with exams right now, weíll see...Ē

    I left it alone and carried on with my weekend. I was out sat night and ran in to her and her friends partying. That night we partied together and she then came back to my place and stayed the night. We made out the entire night.

    I donít know what to do next. I haven't spoken with her in 5 days in hopes that she might initiate a text, trying to give her space and not come across so desperate or needy, although she did make a comment about how she gave me her number and if I really like her I should chase her? Anyhow, I still haven't received a text from her,
    She never initiates texts, she takes hours to respond to one, when she does reply, and itís fairly short messages and will never commit to a plan until last minute.

    I need help; I want to send her a random text that will get her to respond. She isnít very good with the texting banter, not very witty or responsive so it has to be very simple. To be honest she is more responsive when I ask her "howís your day going" Which I hate to ask.

    I want to send her a text using a nickname for her, for example: she has really tiny feet, I was thinking "hey big feet or foot, Iíll pick you up tomorrow night 7:36, get your groove on, we're going bowling"? /?

    I'm not really sure if I should be pursuing another date night considering I know she may use the exams excuse and itís always been me trying to line up a date to see her.

    Need some help guys?

    Thanks,

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    Default Re: I need help with random text - she never initiates

    Some girls really aren't gig on texting. (Hard to believe sometimes I know!!!! But it's true.)

    Those types might be more of the "phone talker"... so you might be more successful dialing her up & speaking with her.

    *just something I've discovered along the way.


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    Default Re: I need help with random text - she never initiates

    I know shes glued to her phone because the times ive been out with her shes texting friends.
    Should i text her first before calling just so i dont catch her off guard?
    "Hey how;s your day going? blah blah....etc.. do you mind if i call you right now?"

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    Default Re: I need help with random text - she never initiates

    I always text first!
    (I made the mistake of calling first one time, which was a bit awkward.)

    LOL!

    I wouldn't ask for permission to call her either.
    If anything, ask her when would be a good time for you to call, if you're going to ask a question about it....
    (NOT "Can I call you?")



    But you need to make your texts fun for her.
    She may not be as receptive as some girls might be, but you'll have to experiment with different styles to see what gets her attention & interest.


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    Default Re: I need help with random text - she never initiates

    Thanks for the info, ....should i open with a "ill pick you up tomorrow 7:21 "etc...blah blah or

    something that doesnt sound so pursing such as " hey big feet, how's your day going?"

    sorry but i'm having a hard time thinking this morning...i'm trying not to screw it up....

    thanks for the info, you've been very helpful.!!

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