Need an epic game plan...
Hey guys! As I'm getting used to the forums I thought maybe the pros of all pros can give me some advice and possibly a game plan.
All right, this may be a long read so I'd appreciate anyone who reads it and make comments & suggestions accordingly.
Target: HB9 (Shorty, blonde, cute face, killer moves, killer looks and gosh those curves )
We've been friends with each other since 2012, late August. (which makes around 7.5 months - a lot i guess - )
Thanks to AFC me she put me friendzone easily. We hung out with each other in many places, parties, concerts, restaurants, etc. But now I realize, (thanks to this awesome community who keeps teaching and teaching) I've been too needy, demanding, pushy and even suffocating. I was the one who was desperate, texting her all the time, interrogating her with my boring questions, force her into meeting me by constantly pushing her even though she might have been busy. She was amazingly good to me. (So I was thinking.) We were talking a lot, exchanging ideas, stories, simply having a great time. (but mostly over texts) We were talking about anything you can imagine. By 'anything' I mean, yes, her boyfriends, relationship issues. As you can see, they were total AFC + friendzone -oh that combination- days. When we first met I did not have any intention of any emotional or sexual connection with her. I just wanted to be friends, which helped me putting her in the friendzone easier.
But now things have changed. I decided I want her so bad which made me a little desperate because no matter how hard I try, I wasn't getting any flirtatious response. So I thought she was the spoiled one and I was too good for her. But as I'm learning the game I also started to realize that my actions were just wrong. So, it's the time to pull a 180 degree turnaround and get this girl. With my new skillset and with an awesome community beside me, I want to change the situation I am in. I read A LOT guidelines about "getting out of her friendzone" which basically suggest what ever PUA will suggest: Be alpha, get off her back, challenge her, tease her, stop talking about her boyfriends, be flirtatious, make her chase you, etc.
At start, these things were hard to do because I had issues dealing with the fact that I might lose her interest somehow and eventually lose her completely. However, I am now ready to take the risk of completely losing her no matter what happens. So I started forcing myself out of her friendzone. She had never initialized conversations before, but not now. We have never got flirtatious before, but that changed. Along the way I encountered with a lot of Sh1t Tests which I miserably failed dodging them and putting myself back in her friendzone. So now my fellow teachers, leaders, friends I need your help. I need every piece of advice. I want to get out of her friendzone completely, seal this deal and never look back.
I thought I might have a perfect environment to settle this...
Way back earlier we agreed to go to a Rihanna concert and bought our tickets. Although, we won't be alone. She will bring her 2 girl best friends and another dude (not her boyfriend nor potential boyfriend, as she told) that I never met. (FYI: I am yet to see these 3 people's faces. I'm completely unknown to them.) We will take a 5 hour bus ride to concert, dance and sing our souls out and return back separately. So my mentors, I need a gameplan for this concert to seal this deal! I'm desperately in need of a game plan which is stripped to its bones. I know I might be asking a lot, but before completely erasing this girl off my mind, I want to take this last shot...
Please help the rookie PUA in need...
It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.
It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.