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    Default Could use some advice regarding a playful girl

    So I met this girl the other night while we were both extremely drunk, and we had a fun night, and I ran my (then rather weak) routine by her. I succesfully got through her sh1ttests I n-closed the deal (considering certain factors a f-close, which was otherwise possible, was called off).

    A few days after the drunken night, we started texting A LOT, and occasionally met up for a drink or a smoke. (Weed is occasionally involved as well, which i really dig about her.)

    Anyway, problem is, there is quite some sexual tension between us, but considering we're both going through a heavy aftermath of a break-up, neither of us has expressed any feelings for the other. As well as I'm not sure that she actually likes me, but I'd rather disregard that as that is simply a matter of lack of confidence which i'm already working on, but, I digress.

    I intentionally got myself friendzoned as I liked the fact that we could just drink and smoke with no strings attached, but whenever I run small pieces of my game, she gets all playful and shows IOIs, but as I prepare to escalate, I swear I notice several IODs. Anyway, whenever she gets playful, I get the urge to escalate and bring something more intimate to the table, and considering I almost f-closed the first night, i get restless every time I accept the entire friend scenario.

    Bafk to the matter at hand, recently i've been working myself out of the friendzone, using several guides here on the forums, and I negged her several times, which work tremendously, here's how today went as I ran my game by her. (I let SEVERAL chances to neg go, which i pity as i write this)

    -she arrives by scooter, while she lives at 2 minute walking distance from where we met
    ME: Whoa, getting lazy are we?
    HER: Yeah, but it's worse than this, i've been taking the scooter all day, while I could easilly walk
    -large conversation initiates, and out of the blue we start talking about the first night
    HER: Well, I'm not all that different when I'm drunk, am I?
    ME: Well, asside from you being miss sassypants whenever you havent had a drink at all, I notice no differences at all.
    HER: Me? Sassy, wow... I know I'm kinda sassy, but I didn't realize YOU noticed that as well! (Smiling, she hints something like "after such short time, you notice that?" I TOOK A COMPLETE GUESS, PAID OFF BIG TIME)
    -another rather boring conversation follows, and we run out of material to talk about, i light a smoke and get up
    ME: Well, its about time I went back to my place, i've got to do some writing and YOU have homework to do (kinda messed this up)
    -she hugs me, and we leave.

    So OK, Im in the friendzone, but I sense that its not at all too late to get back in the sexual or even intimate zone, infact, I'm kind of happy I went through the friendzone.

    Now I have two things to ask,
    1: We're running out of activities, and talking material, we meet up, talk, drink, smoke and as the conversation dies (after 2 hours or so) we leave. What other things can we do? (I considered movies, though I aint sure)
    2: escalation, do you guys thing applying some kino would be enough to escalate things now?

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    Default Re: Could use some advice regarding a playful girl

    Stop being a pussy. She clearly wants you but you are scared to make a move. Instant friendzone.
    Tell her to come over to get high and watch Finding Nemo. Kino the fark out of her then fark the sh1t out of her

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    OhSnap is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Could use some advice regarding a playful girl

    How about you uugh.. FLIRT! You're over reacting and over analizing the situations. I've done that with a girl and we ended up splitting. We could reconnect anytime because I know she's sexually attracted to me. Basicly what I lacked was flirting because I was being all cool with her we made out and all but after that she started taking distance, not because I said or did anything, because she found nothing was going to happend but friendship and guess what she hugs me too, which is rather wack.

    Next time you see her, flirt. Be a bad boy and grow some balls. Say what you feel and don't react to her actions. Here's a good tip, call her out on things. She might think ''Oh no! he' probably doesn't like that'' and she'll explain herself, defending herself. From there you tease her and make her laugh. Give her emotion swings like that and she'll be addicted to you, trust me.

    At first that girl was chasing me, inviting me to club and always hanging with my friends to see me when I join them.

    Grow some balls, be a badboy and a gentelman make her chase you. Tease, flirt and compliment her.

    PS: By calling her out I mean, lets say a girl says ''I don't see you in school that often, what's up'' You could answer ''Oh so you're looking for me at school now, huh ?''. A girl did that to me and I just went ''Oooh yeah, I'll search for you till the end of time'' When I turned it back on her when she asked me at work. She started explaining herself and by doing so she bumped into an other worker. Emotion swing, baby.
    ablindman's new account, pm me if you need help.


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