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Thread: I need an opinion on how to start creating attraction and chemistry

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    Talking I need an opinion on how to start creating attraction and chemistry

    What's up guys.
    A brief on my situation; about six months ago i didn't have a good social life. In fact, it was very bad. For example, i had a couple of beautiful female friends, but I was that guy who was Always there for them, listening to their problems, boring stuff about their love life and giving adice. My guy friends didn't go out a lot. I mean, to clubs, parties and etc. I didn't have a lot of friends, i used to get really nervous when approaching women and my datng life was pretty bad. Then I wanted to improve my social life and started to ressearch on the net on how to do that. It was when I met social dynamics and the pua community. I started to read about that and apply these new concepts in my life. Man, I saw the difference. I mean, i just got into college and I am more sociable now, talking to new people and stuff. I also whent out on a date with a very pretty girl, it was pretty cool. The problem is, that I am only able to talk to women, but I don't know hot to create attraction. I don't see their indicators of interest, compliance tests and stuff like that during my interactions. I only talk to them. I am more sociable, but i don't know how to make a compliment and don't sound needy, for example. I don't have a lot of time to go out to game, because college is pretty hard, but there are probably some good tips that I can use and apply on my daily basis. Any ideas on where to start? (I Still get a lot nervous when I start to make a conversation getting more sexual, or stuff like that. I am not able o create real attraction and chemistry, know what I mean?)I also don't have a lot of friends that like to go out to clubs and parties at night, so I didn't create courage to sarge alone. I want to start again, somehow. I would like some good advice. Thanks!
    ps:sorry for the gramar mistakes (some of them are probably horrible hahaha ), Brazil here!

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    Default Re: I need an opinion on how to start creating attraction and chemistry

    Welcome to the forum,

    Basicly man, this relies a lot on confidence. If you hold yourself from saying something to someone, you're not exactly there. I know this why, because I'm in that stage at some point. I never really been bluntly sexual with a women, but giving compliments is my art. Anyways..

    You should look up on things that attract girls for instance, girls are attracted to funny guys, good posture and confidence. If you have enough confidence to go up to a girl, just to give her a compliment, she'll notice and go nuts (Once I went up to a girl and told her I thought she was adorable, she turned red in an instance and SHE was the one who asked me my name)

    Here's how I compliment girls, I look at what going on around them and go them there. If she's dressed nicely, Don't compliment her about her clothing, how many guys compliment girls that way ? I personally would say something like ''Sorry, I have to say you have an amazing outfit. You really have good taste for fashion, I like that''. I go with what I see, if a girl hangs out, I would say she's adventurous.

    Personally what I do to be attractive, be fun to hang with, tease and flirt, dress nicely and I'm now trying to give girls more emotion swings. Theres plenties of ways to be attractive, you just have to find what fits you.

    Those fit me because I love to hang out and laugh, I got this bad boyish gaze in my face which girls adore. Find what works for you. Find your image.
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    Default Re: I need an opinion on how to start creating attraction and chemistry

    Welcome to the forum,

    Basicly man, this relies a lot on confidence. If you hold yourself from saying something to someone, you're not exactly there. I know this why, because I'm in that stage at some point. I never really been bluntly sexual with a women, but giving compliments is my art. Anyways..

    You should look up on things that attract girls for instance, girls are attracted to funny guys, good posture and confidence. If you have enough confidence to go up to a girl, just to give her a compliment, she'll notice and go nuts (Once I went up to a girl and told her I thought she was adorable, she turned red in an instance and SHE was the one who asked me my name)

    Here's how I compliment girls, I look at what going on around them and go them there. If she's dressed nicely, Don't compliment her about her clothing, how many guys compliment girls that way ? I personally would say something like ''Sorry, I have to say you have an amazing outfit. You really have good taste for fashion, I like that''. I go with what I see, if a girl hangs out, I would say she's adventurous.

    Personally what I do to be attractive, be fun to hang with, tease and flirt, dress nicely and I'm now trying to give girls more emotion swings. Theres plenties of ways to be attractive, you just have to find what fits you.

    Those fit me because I love to hang out and laugh, I got this bad boyish gaze in my face which girls adore. Find what works for you. Find your image.
    ablindman's new account, pm me if you need help.

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    Default Re: I need an opinion on how to start creating attraction and chemistry

    Good tips. I think find your image is better phrased as the classic "be yourself". Everybody's unique, recognize what makes you different and embrace it. The most important thing is to know who you are and to own it. Believe your own bullsh1t and others will too. Sell it.

    Your internal monologue is not the real you. The real you emerges when you tune that voice out; when you go with the flow and simply exist. No searching is required to find out who you are. Just total presence and awareness. The inner monologue cannot exist in the present, it's only concerned with the past or future. Listen to it and you'll see that it's true. It's completely disconnected from the present reality, the now, which is the only true reality. Reality is now and eternity all at once. Surrender to the present and you will know yourself.

    Existence is not something that can be pinned down or defined. But you can feel it.


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