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Thread: Meeting Classmates Sister. I need a gameplan!

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    Default Meeting Classmates Sister. I need a gameplan!

    Hey playas!

    So I'm about to graduate, and we're having a year end screening for all of the films we've done this year. My good friends' sister and their parents are coming down for the event.
    Now to make a long story short, back in September, I saw a pic of my friends sister and said she was cute and that she should set us up. She ended up telling her cuz she's trying to cock block, and we've had this weird "trolling" thing going on ever since (at least 6 months now). We've traded jokes back and forth between my friend via text, and we've shared one awkward conversation over the phone way back LOL (I had a lot to drink).

    So my question is fairly straight forward. What should my approach be when I meet her? what should my game plan be? I'm both excited and fearful at the same time. Mainly because my friend says she's crude, very sarcastic and would never give me the time of day (although we both have sarcasm and several things in common and I'm almost sure it's just intimidation). OH, and I'm also likely being watched by my other classmates LOL.

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    Default Re: Meeting Classmates Sister. I need a gameplan!

    Tease her from the get go

    "So you're the little xxxxx that's been causing all this trouble"
    or something
    Keep it fun and playful

    Depending on how many people are there, talk to her for a bit, 2-3 minutes, then continue talking to your friends, being super social. She's goign to be watchign and evaluating you. This is your chance to show you have friends, have value, are confident.

    Then come back and talk to her more later, keep teasing, being playful, kino, etc.
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval



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    Default Re: Meeting Classmates Sister. I need a gameplan!

    Thanks for the advice man! Here's a follow up.

    So, I ended up meeting her earlier than expected (We went to the rippers with her sister and a few others). I didn't get to tease her much like I intended. Our first meet was exactly what most expected... awkward. She didn't seem to like me much but I never let up. As soon as we got to the strippers, things changed.
    We started talking a little more. Got comfortable. got to know each other a bit, and shared some laughs. She was playing with her hair a lot and kept our conversation going, so I'm assuming this is a good thing. My classmate (her sister) was also giving me dirty looks every time I started talking to her sister, but I never stopped being fun and social or let anything take me away from my game.
    So towards the end of the night, I said to her "So I'm not as bad as you thought, huh?" and she responded "No, just at first you seemed a little obsessed". I responded "Well honestly, I mostly did it to bug your sister." (my poor attempt at DHVing LOL). She then said "Good for you!" looking disappointed, maybe annoyed. We talked a bit more like normal after, but nothing major.

    So I'm not sure if she was just being flat out mean, or if she was disappointed that I devalued her by basically saying I wasn't as interested as I came off. Tell me what you guys think. Sorry if it's a long read. :P

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    Default Re: Meeting Classmates Sister. I need a gameplan!

    seems pretty neutral to me, you haven't gotten anywhere positively or negatively, did u get her # or fb?

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    Default Re: Meeting Classmates Sister. I need a gameplan!

    Haha yeah, it was honestly more of a "feeling out process" to ease the tension from the first impression, but we're good now. I'll be seeing her again tomorrow.
    And no, I didn't bother with getting a contact, but I know I can get it easily at this point, so I'm really not too worried about it. She also leaves in 2 days...

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    Default Re: Meeting Classmates Sister. I need a gameplan!

    So here's the conclusion.

    I teased a bit, was super social, and stayed persistent. By nights end, we made out several times, and I damn near got the f-close had we had somewhere to go . Her sister (my classmate) is not too happy about us. Anyway, just thought I'd report back. Thanks for the advice guys.


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