I've been using POF/OKC for a couple months on and off and it's usually been quite good online. I'll open up with something smart, funny and close on the 5th-6th msg on most girls that i'm into. Now when I get the # i seem to really be screwing things up, I swear i've had so many numbers now and met maybe just a few.
I've tried texting them asap, 30min-2hrs later, the next day ( when i get the number). 1hr seems solid to me and has worked well. I'll usually open with "hey this is alex from pof, i just texted you what are your next two wishes" or something funny from our convo etc.
I know to never double text or text pretty fast back so this isn't the problem, it's just when do i stop texting them into the convo? how fast should i go for the date? I always go for that weekend for the first date so a few days after i get the #. I've gotten into trouble not ending the text conversation first and then having to wait for them to text back ( sometimes they do, sometimes they and ill have to retext to get the convo going). Any suggestions/ideas/help with this guys?
Basically, the flow of convo and the vibes really seem to die after day1. It all goes swell online and the first few texts, but after that poof. They quickly lose what interest they've had.
Thanks in advance