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    Default possible friend zone? Get me out!

    I've met her online. I think I am very close to being put in the friend zone. Anyways, I just wanted to see what you think. She is 18 and I think quite inexperienced with guys, and careful.

    First we texted for 6 months (lots of kinky stuff in the beginning, lots of flirting later on). After we met I went to study abroad for 6 months, we stayed in touch via email.

    On a first date and second date we haven't done lots of touching and stuff, just hugs.

    On the third date also, almost no KINO, but in the end I kissed her, she kissed me back, but 10 sec later she pulled away during the passionate kiss saying "Oh, no". Next day I texted her telling that I scared her probably (I thought she wanted to take things slow).

    She said she was scared how far the kissing might go, and she was nervous about getting home on time, and on the end she stated that there was nothing wrong with the process, with smiley in the end. In the same sentence she also said that she thinks it was a mistake (the kiss probably).

    What do you think "mistake" means? I am afraid that it means she maybe started to look at me as a friend? Or is she scared to move so fast.

    I know she mentioned few months ago she wasn't into serious relationships - if this was the truth. I am okay with that as I am not either.

    what do you think?

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    Default Re: possible friend zone? Get me out!

    Sounds like she's not that romantically interested in you.

    Girls are rarely actually afraid of a serious relationship when they say they are. Some of them are, but they bring that up after a few dates / sleeping together, not at the first kiss.

    Your text saying you scared her, bad idea. You're letting her control everything.

    My general advice, withdraw a little from contact (like have breaks for a day or two here and there) then keep it sexual and flirty when you do contact her. Don't be so cautious with her. Ignore her whole discussion of a relationship versus not a relationship. If she brings it up, tell her to shush and not worry about it. Don't engage in a discussion of it, it's not going to be beneficial for you

    Here's a post about freind zone I wrote, check this out too
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...iend-zone.html
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    rocoloco is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: possible friend zone? Get me out!

    got it.

    Cool, so, that was just a first part of my story, I wanted to compare my actions.

    Here is what i did then: I waited 2 days and then sent her totally new text message, I acted like that conversation never happened.

    But I got to keep it playful and flirty, and more aggressive, damn!

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    Default Re: possible friend zone? Get me out!

    That is the actual conversation 2 days later. Point out mistakes please. I don't wanna be lame anymore

    This is how I played out: I started with simple, short and funny text I found in some guys guide, sry for the length, have mercy on a beginner:

    Me: Hey, whats up! (This kind of text you'll never get from me)
    She: Really, well I didn't :-) I am going to go observe stars now, you
    Me: Yes....
    She: What yes you wiener? (she sometimes call me wiener, and I call her something like vagina, pussy, I think there is no eng translation for it. I am from Europe)
    Me: I thought there is a 2nd part to your text, because there was no question mark in the end. I don't communicate good with illiterate people
    She: I can only speak in old slavic language
    Me: Cool, than you can teach me those voices from the throat And name one sexy star - after her nickname, and one even more sexier star - after my nickname
    She: you speak from your throat yourself No I am not going to to that, because then I wont' find my star in that pool of wieners.
    Me: You are naughty all the time, all you can think of are wieners and liquid linked with them, khm khm
    She: No I do not, at the moment I am more into kissing and cuddling. Probably because of ovulation... blabla....

    (Next, I pulled the disqualifier, a little of reversed psychology: "We don't make a good couple because of X)" stuff. Well, I think I did).

    Me: Well I am very much interested into pussy right now. We don't match, I thought so. You talking about evolution sounds like talking about plants.... blabla...

    After that I get the following long text, seems like disqualifier is working, she also implies something about telling me some stuff next time. I think she means next time we see each other:

    She: blablabla about vaginas, how they are just some skin.... Well faith has brought together two minuses, what can you do I see you don't know nothing about biology, only about languages. I will tell you next time, I see you are interested. Am I not a living organism bla bla bla

    And than I didn't reply, because I went to the movies. I plan to text her again tomorrow, usually she always sends the last text.

    So the next day:

    ME: I see you want to see me again. Oh and let me congratulate you ; ) - i also attached one song about sunny weatther and wavy hair, cause it was sunny)
    SHE: haha, why would you congratulate me, cause I have wavy hair haha
    ME: Actually, because I've sent you text, congratulation Oh and I can flatter your hair enough, I so wanna touch it right now (I wrote that cause I have thrown a lot some disqualifiers, and push and pulls, and wanted to be flirty for a change again).

    Then something new, she hasn't replied since yesterday, and it only was 6 pm. Now is 12:30 pm. That's new. I think I don't seem to needy, cause she always sends the last text, and I sometimes disappear for a day, or two, or three., usually after sending each other texts all day, 2 days in a row with a 30 min to 2 hours of pause in between.

    She playing hard to get maybe, cause I froze out yesterday, or cause now she's gotten her dose of flattering?

    What do you think?

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    Default Re: possible friend zone? Get me out!

    what happens if you have known the person for 4 months and were sleeping with them on the first night and for 1 and a half months after but have been in the friend zone since.

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    Default Re: possible friend zone? Get me out!

    anyone to guide me how to continue from here?


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